Is Cremation the Way to Go

Jenny Heart
Everyone doesn't seem to want to think about how they want to be viewed at the end of their life. Many people have many unsettling thoughts about worms crawling on them, to being afraid of being placed under ground.

These are all fears that normal everyday people think about. All people are still imperfect, that's why we think of this time of our lives as a scary one. I want to share with you the reasons I think Cremation is a great way to put an end to the last chapter of a dear one's life.

An urn that has the remains it in will not scare children as bad as them seeing a stiff lifeless body in a casket. I think this is more frightening to little children, than even the adults.

Cremation is not only a gentler way of showing the loved ones in your life, and easier way of saying goodbye. It is also more economical as well. My mother purchased one that was made of marble. The other kind I've heard doesn't hold together as well under ground. This way could save lots of money, while leaving the family with a more comfortable feeling during visitation.

Funerals are never easy, but the way of cremation opened my eyes fully to the comforting ways that this type of service can bring to a person's family and friends.

I've always been close minded about the thought of being cremated. It maybe because I didn't want to face the thought about death. My father was a dear man, who would do anything for anybody. His remains were indeed cremated. My mother had beautiful roses by this beautiful marble urn, along with a Bible, a beautiful picture that I had given him about entering heaven. This method gave me peace about him being departed, much more than if I had to witness him in a casket all frail, and left with unsettling emotions due to viewing him in a casket.

Life throws may punches in our lifetime. Why not think about making this punch a lot less painful for everybody that will be viewing the departed loved one, at the funeral home, or church service.

Published by Jenny Heart

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  • Dan Reveal4/23/2012

    This is a very helpful article. Thanks!

  • Abby Willow6/8/2011

    Jenny- so sorry for the loss of your father. I agree that cremation is a more comforting way to go- I would love to have my ashes scattered all over my favorite places, and for our honeymoon we are traveling the country to scatter my fiance's father's ashes in his requested areas. It will be bonding, I think, in its own way

  • R.C. Johnson5/10/2011

    Our family has embraced the use of cremation as it does make things so much easier for those who remain. I will be cremated, and have my urn selected. Blessings, Jenny. rcj

  • Lynn Pritchett5/3/2011

    A tough topic nicely written ;-)

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky5/2/2011

    I'm going that way.

  • Laura Cone5/1/2011

    good info

  • Sivaramakrishnan Ananthanarayanan5/1/2011

    I know how much you loved your father Jenny and in a way his physical suffering has ended. Singapore is a city state and hence cremations are common among christians too. For Hindus like me, funeral pyre has given way to electric crematorium. A quick way to be reduced to ashes and then disbursed in the seas or rivers to disappear into nature! I echo Michele's words. My heartfelt condolences, Jenny. May his soul rest in peace! siva

  • Marie Stine5/1/2011

    Hugs Jenny

  • Nancy P. Goodman, in Tennessee4/30/2011

    So sorry for your loss, Jenny. It seems more are choosing cremation these days. It is such a terrible expense, otherwise. Bless you and your family during this time!

  • Lori Gunn4/30/2011

    My mom even had it paid for lon before she died. We ordered a beautiful cloisine vase delivered in 2 days for $30 - same one elsewhere was a few hundred dollars. I don' t want to be in a jar somewhere - I want to be scattered by my lovely lilac bushes. Virtul hugs, (((Jenny)))

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