Is the Economy Ruining Your Sex LIfe?

With so many people losing jobs, foreclosures at an all time high and people taking lower paying jobs, stress is at an all time high. Many couples are struggling daily just to make it through another week, which unfortunately means sex is the last thing on their mind. Most men would be surprised to know how often the subject of sex comes up when a group of women get together. It can be lunch, shopping or a movie, but one thing I know for sure - is that the subject of sex will come up. Since the recent economic downturn, I have noticed that more and more of my girlfriends are complaining about a lack of sex.

For a man to be unable to support his family as he did in the past, can be a big blow to the ego and libido. Unlike a woman, a man can't "fake" it till he makes it. While your man may want to have rompy stompy sex, his body may not be cooperating. Once a routine of not having sex is established, it becomes very easy to have it become the "new normal."

What we all need to remember is that sex is a great stress reliever - and it's free! A healthy sex life can greatly reduce stress and bring couples closer, even in challenging economic times.

Think of yourselves as a team and remind your lover that you are in this together and he is not alone. Encourage him to talk openly about any fears he has and think of ways to reduce stress. Once you take the "us against the world" attitude, things can only go up -- literally.

Sex Tips: Make Your Bedroom a Sexual Retreat

1. Never discuss money or financial issues in the bedroom - definite sex killer.

2. Men tend to be more sexually aroused visually - leave the lights on and let him watch you undress.

3. Create an inviting relaxed atmosphere by placing an air freshener in the bedroom. Spicy scents make for great sex aromatherapy.

4. If you have a television in your bedroom, get rid of it. Televisions in the bedroom only serve as a major distraction and discourage intimacy. Even on the nights you don't have sex, if the TV is gone; you and your mate can talk about the day (remember when you first met and talked for hours?) and cuddle instead of watching the nightly news.

5. Remove any exercise equipment (aka glorified clothes hanger) and replace it with a comfortable chair. No one wants a constant visual reminder that they should exercise - not sexy.

If all your attempts still fail, consider scheduling your man an appointment with a doctor. Men hate to admit that they could have an erectile dysfunction issue; but by talking about it openly - you can make him more comfortable about using medications such as Viagra.