Is He Cheating?

Ah love! It's great right? Well what happens when it's all settled and your living in a place with that lover boy and he's acting strange! OH no! He couldn't be cheating could he? He could be. Sorry to sound like one of those teen magazines, but guys cheat a lot! Yes they do. And if you don't know the signs they you might be being played! Check these things out below and ask your self if he has any of the characteristics of a scoundrel.

Does he stay out late?: Does he stay out at all hours of the night and then come rolling home and pay no attention to you or the fact that he was even out?

Does he say he'll call and not?: Yeah this could also be a case of he's a guy and he's got a lot on his mind. But if he constantly keeps you waiting, then what's the deal? You need to find out!

Do you get phone calls where some one hangs up on you?: Yes this isn't just on TV. This really happens. I don't understand why there new girlfriends act like a little kid and call and hang up, but they indeed do. Caller id is helpful for this. However they can also private the phone call. Ugh. Usually the new girlfriend wants to hear your voice and what you sound like. Some times they just call to perhaps catch him on the phone and when you answer they have to hang up. Lame!

Does he spend a lot of time flirting with other girls?: Jealousy is not healthy in any relationship. So if he's just talking to his and your friends like in normal conversation, then scratch this one off the list. I'm mainly asking if he is all over girls, flirting with them, giving them back rubs, long hugs? This is all mad! Talk to him about it if it bothers you! If he refuses or says it's nothing bad, then think what he might be doing when your not around!

Does he say he was out with his friends and the friends say no?: Big hint he was out doing something else with someone else. Why would he lie if he wasn't. There is no reason for a loser to lie less he's out with the other girls.

If you really think he is cheating and you want to keep going with this relationship then you should pry more. 1st off ask him before you do anything too drastic. Just go and ask him how he sees the relationship and if he's seeing someone else. If he tells you no, but you still feel something isn't right then there are things you can do.

For instants:

- Check his wallet for numbers of girls

- Check his cell phone for who he's called

- Follow him out on his get togethers

- Have a friend or some one else follow him

- Call him 3 or 4 times when he's gone

- Check his text messages.

Checking up on a boyfriend is not something I recommend. However I can see why some might decide to do it. Remember usually it is always best to check stuff out from the main source IE: your man! So try to keep the communicate open before you go into other ways of checking up.