Is He the Marrying Type? Insight from a Guy's Perspective

Michael Martin
Are you wondering whether your man is the marrying type? Generally speaking, if you hear excuses such as "I'm not ready" or "why do we have to take this (good) thing to that level," pause and review the following discussion points. He may be the marrying type, but unfortunately, two kinds of roadblocks may stand in the way. He may not be the marrying type for you personally, or it's a matter of bad timing.

Physical Attraction

Is your man physically attracted to you? You may scoff, laugh, or otherwise dismiss this element, but you've been forewarned. Men like to know they have an attractive woman on their arm. There is no wavering of this fact. If you're attractive enough for your man and the relationship chemistry is there, the ring will not be far behind for most men. Your man should eventually look at himself in the mirror and say that he has a great thing, so let's get on with the church bells.

Hassle Free

Ladies, a guy generally needs three things, and he's rather content - the television remote, a beer, and football. If you disrupt your man's time for doing man things, you're probably not winning any points, and hence, he won't consider himself the marrying type for you.

What Type Are You?

Are you the type that he will bring home to meet his parents or are you the type that he will just bring home? If he believes you're the latter, don't necessarily expect a long term commitment on the horizon. If he doesn't think his parents will like you, he's not the marrying type for you.

Singlehood

Generally speaking, most guys want to experience dating as much as possible before settling down on a permanent basis. This is why men tend to get married later than women - age 26 for women and age 28 for men. Men tend to arrive at some point in time and say it's the right time to get married. Then, they will be the marrying type.

Married to His Career

Men sometimes want to conquer their career. If this is the case, there's not much time for a commitment in a relationship. He may have some solid marrying type qualities, but you're a victim of bad timing.

Finances

Finances sometimes tie together with the guy who is married to his career. A lot of guys are interested in building up the bank account before they decide to get engaged. It may be the feeling of being financially stable that is important. If this is the case, you're also a victim of bad timing.

Source:

http://www.24timepass.com/tips-and-tricks/average-age-get-married.htm

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  • Chris M. Martin8/19/2009

    Dwayne, noted. I did say generally.

  • Dwayne C. Nelson8/19/2009

    There's only three things a man generally needs?

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