Is My Husband Secretly Gay or Bisexual?

If you are wondering if your husband is secretly gay or bisexual, your intuition may be telling you more than you want to know. If the thought has even crossed your mind there must be some kind of hint that it could be an issue. Just because a man is married does not mean that he is heterosexual.

Past History of Gay Thoughts or Experiences

If your husband has told you that he has thoughts of being with another guy or having sex with another guy, you should not take this information lightly. Has he ever told you of actual gay experiences, touching or feelings. This is a big red flag. Your husband may be secretly gay if he keeps bringing up his past experiences.

Hanging Out in Gay Bars

Have you found out that your husband is hanging out in gay bars? This should be a huge sign that your husband is either unusually comfortable with his sexuality or he is or wants to be gay. If your husband is hanging out in gay bars, you should definitely discuss it in marriage counseling. Any guy that hangs out in a gay bar may be secretly gay.

Wearing Make Up

If your husband is overly concerned about his looks to the point that he starts wearing make up, you may want to question him about his intentions. It is very odd for men to be comfortable wearing make up. Just because a man wears make up does not necessarily mean that he is gay, but it is unusual enough for you to have a conversation with him about it. Make up is definitely a major indicator of a secretly gay man.

Sexual Molestation Traumatic Sexual Event as A Child

Has your husband told you of a traumatic sexual event or a molestation at the hands of a man? Traumatic sexual events at a young age can have a profound impact on adults, especially if it was from someone of the same sex. The hurt, anger, sorrow and guilt that he carries around from this event can make him feel like he may be gay even if he is not gay. These issues need to be worked out and your husband may need professional counseling.

If your worst fears are confirmed and your husband is gay or bisexual it does not mean a guaranteed divorce and break up of your family. Many couples with this issue have found help through marriage counseling and other programs to help gays convert to straight when they want to. If your husband is secretly gay, he may or may not want to be.

If it turns out that your fears were unwarranted, you may want to spice up your sex life with your husband by using this lovemaking tips and secrets.