Is Your Man Satisfied...?

Yea, sure so we would like to think we know the answer, but what is the real truth behind that question? I am going to tell you, right off the bat, (and this applies to about 65% of you) NO, you're not. He may tell you are, but just like woman have faked orgasms he can act as if he is fully satisfied but he can be faking too. A man can climax, but still not be satisfied with what just went down. But, why would he lie to me about that? Why wouldn't he? As women we automatically fall into categories that men either like, will deal with, or don't like. The 65% of you that probably aren't satisfying your men fall into one of these categories:

1. You think like Ashanti did in her song where she sings "...this here is too good he don't want nothing else..." -Come on now even if your stuff was that good, there is someone out there with something better or just different. The mistake with this way of thinking is that you may be basing your cockiness off of lies.

2. You just had a baby, or you are too tired, or just not in the mood. A word of advice-get in the mood. Mainly because we all know that what you're not fulfilling another woman is willing. I mean we all have our nights or time periods when we use a free pass, but lets be reasonable. Once or twice a week is not going to cut it. This is your partner we are talking about. Just like you want to make sure his hunger has been satisfied after each meal, do the same for him sexually. Don't let your laziness be the reason why your relationship suffers sexually. Where there is a will there is a way.

3. You are too close-minded. You care too much. Way to conservative. Loosen up what goes on behind closed doors should stay there and if they don't you are with the wrong person. No one will know if you decide to try something new or taste something different. A lack of confidence can prevent us from acting out certain actions, but its not the time to be shy. Most women would say that everything is fine in the bedroom, but after talking to lots of men they would beg to differ.

What it boils down to is: if you want to keep your man you need to learn how to satisfy him. You don't want to be the girl whose man is always working late, or hanging with the guys, or even worse you don't want to be the girl who is being turned down for sex. The same old amateur positions, same routine, scarf tied around your head every nite can eventually end up being a turnoff. Sex is a beautiful thing. Orgasms have to be one of the best feelings ever. The act of sex should not have to feel like work. It should be fun. It can be therapeutic, a great stress reliever, and a form of exercise. Sex should be something to look forward to, a truly fulfilling and satisfying experience. If its not, you and or your partner are doing something wrong. Maybe you should open the lines of communication with your partner so the both of you know what you are doing wrong or what you aren't doing period. Put on a show for him, take him out for a night of fun, watch an x-rated movie together, and don't be afraid to be a freak for your man. Just watch how his facial expressions change as you're licking and touching and teasing. Lick every where from his ears down to his knees. Depending on the type of man you may want to explore other avenues.