Just How Charitable Are Charities

Is Charity All It's Cracked Up to Be?

Kathleen Shaeffer
This is an event from the past, as told by my husband, David.

After seeing all the nonsense, posted on the smoking ban forum, about these so called "charitable organizations", I am reminded when I was in the service 300 miles at sea heading east in the atlantic. I was awakened at 2200 hours, and told the captain wanted to see me on the bridge; my mother was dying. My father was trying to get a hold of me through the red cross. He wanted to know if they could bring me home. They said sure but I would have to take out a loan for travel expenses and wait to get it approved. Of course I would have to have a good credit record. I had just turned 18. No record yet. This upset my father. He remembered I had told him the call sign of our ship. He called the naval reserve who had a large short wave radio at their center. They radioed our ship with all the info. The Captain talked to me personally and said, "son we will get you home." He went to the officers lounge, opened the safe and "gave" me some money. He said "we take care of our own here." He then radioed the carrier. We were going to refuel the next day and moved up the schedule. I was hi-lined to the carrier at dawn and put on a waiting plane on deck. It was an anti sub plane. I was the only passenger. When we landed in the states a navy pickup truck was waiting for me to take me to the train station. My dad was waiting for me in Ohio. He took me to the hospital where my mother was in a coma. I made it home 4 hours before she died. It took me under 24 hours to get home from 300 miles at sea. Since that day I have not given one dime to their organization. And I will not give to any other "charitable frauds". By the way, the Navy told me to take all the time I needed, it would be approved. I would, to this day, walk through Fire for that Captain. This is a TRUE story.

Published by Kathleen Shaeffer

Retired from 26 years of Chid Care,and happily married to the man of my dreams, who was my inspiration for most of my poetry. Published one book "Kackie's Book of Poetry", out in paperback. I also make water...  View profile

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  • ButchW2/12/2007

    I know what you talking about here.. I have had several men who served their country .. they have said they would never never donate one dime to the Red Cross.. In a death in a family the Red Cross might help you get home but they had to be paid back is the wayI understood it.. One of these guys was in the navy also and stationed in California... Thank God for that Captain.....

  • K.Shaeffer2/11/2007

    I totally agree, we need to get the priorities in order. Our own should come first but I guess our country heads are too busy getting brownie points from elsewhere..and for what??
    Money is the root of it all.

  • Highflyer2/11/2007

    There are a lot of scams out there! Seems that even the ligitemate ones want to help, but you have to jump through hoops of fire to get it. Seems like everyone wants to help "those poor kids" in other countries, when there are plenty of families in our OWN country that are in danger of loosing their homes and jobs, and going hungry. Where is the help for "our own" here??? God bless that Capt!

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