Keep Your Children Safe, Stop Them from Running Amok

Majority of Kidnapping Cases Happens at Shopping Centers

RONYAE
My mother and I were in a department store the other day, and there were three small children running through the store like it was a playground. The first thing I thought was how that parent would go into a frenzy, if those children came up missing!

It has been known and reported how the majority of kidnapped children are always taken from unattended cars, shopping areas, and sadly, but yes, playgrounds! I say this because I want to focus on how these children were obviously not being attended to during the time of kidnapping.

People we, as parents must be aware of our children at all times. I know you can't be with them everywhere they go, but at least you can be certain they are well attended to when they are. I have seen children in my neighborhood walking to the store by themselves...and get this; they're usually going to the store for their parents! Now, I know we all are a bit guilty of this. We feel as if the corner store is not that far, and what can happen to them in that short of a distance. But, this is where you're wrong! It's just that short of a distance needed to lose your child to either a violent crime or something worst!

So many times, parents find themselves saying, "They only went to the corner!", when five minutes later, they hear sirens and screams coming from the corner....and their child has been an innocent victim of a drive-by shooting.

Another point I would like to add, is the fact of youth roaming the streets at all hours of the night! What type of foolishness is this? How can a parent allow their child outside, roaming the streets after 8 PM? I can recall days when my mother was adamant about my cousin and I being in the house before the street lights came on....remember those days? We used to feel as if our parents were being mean to us, but it was for our own good! I'm thankful to my mother for that. Because all sorts of things happen in the streets during the night, and it's no place for a child!

Your child is out in the streets running amok, and you have no clue as to what he/she is doing, are being exposed to, or is engaging in. The best way to prevent this, is to keep your children disciplined and attended. Know who their friends are, where they are going to be, and always keep phone numbers to their friends' parents' homes, and it wouldn't hurt to have the friend's personal mobile number as well!

Published by RONYAE

Motor City, MI-based freelance writer and publisher, Ronyae is 30-something years young, Unmarried and without children...And no, not bored or lonely, she lives like this by choice, and is very happy!!! Than...  View profile

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Many of times, when A child is sent to the store for their parents, they don't return.

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  • RONYAE1/18/2007

    THANX MEME!! And I couldn't agree with you more!!! I must also commend you on how you're raising your children!!!

  • MEME1/17/2007

    Man! I have often thought the same thing as I am driving downt he street and I see young children goint to school or to the store by themselves. I'm sorry but this world is just getting crazier and crazier and I would rather err on the side of too protective than not protective enough. My father drove me to school and picked me up until I was in the 10th grade and I plan on doing the same with my children. No going to the store alone, no going to the bathroom in a public place alone not until they reach an age where I am comfortablewith that kind of independence. Do I realize that at some point they will have to learn to do things on their own? Yes I do but it will be in a semi-controlled environment so that by the time they have to be on their own without me....i wont have to worry......as much....

  • RONYAE1/17/2007

    Oh yes SEN, dey surely are! And thanx for commenting-U R truly a grand supporter!!!

  • SEN1/17/2007

    It is the parents fault..it happens more than you know..its like sending your child to the bathroom alone in a crowded resturaunt. Either way its a NO-NO!!! Parents have to learn and yes we make mistakes..but you have to be self concious all the time and thnk of others and how they see you and your children..after all they are an extntion of their parents.

  • RONYAE1/17/2007

    Thanks Anna! Yes, we must also credit those youth and parents as well for a job well done, when we do have some that are not like the masses!! THANK GAWD for grace, mercy and LOVE!!!

  • Anna Burroughs1/17/2007

    I asked one of the nicest kids I know, a sixteen year old boy, how he came to be so respectful and how he managed to stay out of trouble. He credited his mom completely - said she always asks where he's going, who he's going with and gets all the important details. It makes a difference! Well written article and cute kids!

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