Keeping Your Autistic Child on a Schedule During the Holidays

Heather Shockney
Autistic children thrive on schedules. When their schedules are changed, even the slightest, it could mean that the day is going to be filled with meltdowns. Autistic children can have a hard time dealing with the holidays. The holidays usually bring several changes in an autistic child's schedule. Here are some ways you can survive the holidays with your autistic child and still keep to a schedule.

Holidays mean changes in your autistic child's school routine. They may have half days, or no school at all. This will mean a huge change in your autistic child's schedule. Granted they have the weekends off from school each week, but this will be for a longer period. To help your autistic child cope with the holiday from school, you will need to plan several activities to keep them busy. You might want to stick to the same wake up time. Go about your normal routine for a school day as much as possible. This will help your autistic child deal with the time off from school.

Holidays will bring many visitors to your house. This can make your autistic child feel nervous if they are not used to lots of people coming by. This can also mean a change in their normal daily schedule. To make this change of schedule easier on your autistic child consider having guests over at one certain time, instead of people dropping in at different times of the day. This will allow you to prepare the child. They will know when to expect the guests.

The holidays can mean many different outings. These can interfere with your autistic child's normal schedule. This does not mean you have to pass them up. You simply need to plan for them. Tell your autistic child about the outing in advance. Talk with them about what the outing will entail. If the outing is something you do not think your autistic child will enjoy, see if you can find someone to watch them. This will help to avoid unnecessary meltdowns and stress for you both.

Try to schedule outings when your child is at their best. If you know the evenings are usually filled with meltdowns, this is not the time to go holiday shopping. You know your child best, and you can schedule holiday activities so that the both of you will be able to enjoy them.

Here are some key tips to remember for surviving the holidays with your autistic child.

*Keep their schedule as close to normal as possible.

*Schedule visits from guests instead of having them just drop by.

*Prepare your autistic child for outings in advance.

*Work outing around your child. If you know they are better in the morning, go then.

The holidays do not have to turn your life into chaos. By doing a little extra planning, you can keep your autistic child on their schedule, and still enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday.

Published by Heather Shockney

Heather is the mom to a daughter with Autism, ADHD, ODD, Mood-D/O-NOS,obsessive compulsive tendencies, and sensory issues. We are a cyber-schooling family.She writes for a variety of online venues. If you ha...  View profile

  • An autistic child thrives on a schedule.
  • The holidays can make an autistic child have many meltdowns.
  • Plan outings around your child's schedule.
Autistic children can find the holidays to be overstimulating. This can cause meltdowns and stress for everyone. By doing some extra planning, this can be avoided.

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  • Maxwell Payne1/27/2009

    I agree with Erin here, there are some solid tips and advice in this article. It is crucial that autistic kids be kept on their schedule which can be hard during hectic times like the holidays.

  • Erin Thursby12/11/2008

    These are solid tips. Not just for austic kids either...

  • Pam Gaulin11/13/2008

    Great info that all parents can use :-)

  • theBarefoot11/11/2008

    Good tips and a welcomed break from Webkinz. ;)

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