Kinky Getaways for Married Couples in New York City

When the term 'kinky sex' is heard, it's not often that it conjures up an image of a married couple; but New York City is quietly becoming one of the capitals of the world for kinky sexual experiences for those who long ago exchanged vows promising lifelong faithfulness.

New York City and sex have had a complicated history. Long known as a place where 'anything goes', the reality is that through the years, New York has worked hard to protect its image as a safe and clean place for tourists and residents alike.

The headlines may lead people to think that New York doesn't offer much in terms of adult fun. To the contrary, though, New York has a lot of adult oriented fun, but it tends to be 'adult' adult fun, if that makes sense. In other words, people with the money and time to travel to the Big Apple can partake in all sorts of kinky and risqué behavior with their spouses. They enjoy the anonymity, safety and options that the city offers.

As a resident of New York, I have been surprised how many times married couples who are planning a trip into Gotham ask me what they can do to make it a sexually memorable trip. Married couples like the feeling of getting away from it all and being naughty, kinky even, and New York City has plenty of options for them.

The following are some great ideas for married couples looking for a kinky weekend in New York City.

New York City Swingers Clubs

While no official statistics are kept on this, New York City probably has the most to offer for on-premise swingers clubs. The swingers clubs in New York City run the gamut. Some are old school, and have an older clientele, while others are as much nightclub as anything else. Generally, most will feature little pressure and many married couples go just to watch, rather than actually swap. Read here for a listing of the best swingers clubs in New York City.

Couples Friendly Strip Joints

There are a couple of dozen strip joints in Manhattan alone, and in all cases, couples are welcomed. But a handful caters directly to couples. In particular, Rick's Cabaret, Lace and Sapphire New York are among the best. Read here for reviews of each.

Standard Hotel

The Standard Hotel is in one of the trendiest areas of Manhattan, the Meat Packing District, and has built a following because it is known as a place where people on the outside of the hotel, particularly on the High Line that runs underneath it, can often get a free show. For a while, the hotel's website was even promoting the fact that couples come here to have sex; often in front of floor to ceiling windows for the pleasure of curious voyeurs below.

Unlike New York City's couples friendly strip joints and unlike its swingers clubs, there is no guarantee of seeing anything exciting here. But there is undoubtedly some excitement for those looking for a little kinky fun due to the sheer anticipation of peering up at the hotel. Of course, the truly daring married couples may check into the hotel and put on a show of their own.

Hourly Rate Motels

If you're visiting New York City overnight already, there may not be a need to check into an hourly rate motel. But for a couple visiting just for the day, checking into a 'no-tell motel' might add to the excitement and kinky fun. There are several that cater to lovebirds, who, let's face it, are not all married to each other. Read this for a description of the best hourly rate motels in New York City.

So if you are happily married and want to do something sexy, kinky and fun in New York City, consider these options.