Law of Attraction: The Essence of You

All day long we are shown contrast in life. We prefer one thing over another or maybe we even prefer certain people over others. We're given contrast to help us decide what we want and don't want in our lives and then we are able to figure out all the unique views and styles of what we decide to be our life.

When it comes to what we want in life, we are all unique. Some of us love the desert while others must have the coastal weather. Some of us prefer modern style while others prefer a more old fashioned approach. Neither is right or wrong just part of the unique style that we all possess. It is when we begin to compare and take notes is when it can affect our own creation of what we desire.

Everything you do and perceive is the essence of you. You show who you really are through your daily activities, the way you interact with people, the thoughts you have about your world and yourself. And those are the telltale sign of where you are in your own life.

For example: Let's say you go to dinner with a group of friends. And you all get to talking about life in general. One of your friends has some definite thoughts of what he thinks life is all about and those thoughts are completely opposite of what you believe. So at this point you have the choice to make a decision. You can 'allow' this person to go on about what they think about life from their own eyes or you can tolerate this person and get upset within or you can make fun of their ideas or thoughts, even if it is to yourself because is some weird way you feel threatened by their beliefs as if your beliefs are wrong somehow even though you know better.

Then there are the fighters who feel they have to defend their beliefs somehow. .Each of these ways of how you react say something about the inner you and what you really think and feel about life. If you are someone who 'allows' the person's rants and stay solid within your own self still having a great time as all the ideas flow back and forth of the contrast of it all you are secure and confident in your own self and what you think without feeling the need to bring another person down even if it is only within your own thoughts. There are some that feel the need to get upset and say nothing but feeling frustrated and what a boob that other person is. Hmmmrph!

This tells us that you are stubborn in your own thoughts not allowing others to 'be' as they are so it comes back to you once again. The essence of who you really are in this case is 'I'm right, you're wrong, and I am not confident about how I feel and think." Then we have the people that make fun of others because they don't believe the same as another. This rarely comes from someone who is feeling confident in how they believe. They feel the need to defend themselves and mock others because of their own insecurities and fears. The non loving way is causing a vibration in their life that will create a cycle of judgment and non allowance in their own life.

The fighter is just as negatively opposed as the mocker. Each of these people have their own lessons within that are telling them which direction to go. Stay on the same kind of track and you'll continue to have the same in your life or if you're feeling uncomfortable then YOU need to change something whether it is just to get away from the offending person or to begin to learn to feel confident within your own self so that others thoughts and actions don't affect you.

The essence of you shines through day after day. No matter if you 'wear a mask' or not how we are about others or how we feel about ourselves always comes through. When applying positive thought to your life you have to change your own way of thinking about others, the world, and your own life. When you begin to realize that even though what another does isn't what you would do is still okay for them, even if it isn't working for them, then you are half way there. The next step is to begin to retrain your own mind to shift focus to a better more positive outlook on life. That positive outlook can change your view overnight. The more positive vibrations you pour out of your very essence, the more genuine and loving you become.

The Universe takes notes and brings to you what you feel from that essence of you. We are in a continually cycle of change, expansion, and learning but it can be done with ease, joy, and a positive way every time. Begin really looking at your essence through your thoughts and what you say and do and you will begin to see a whole other world.