LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX BABY! ....SEX,SEX,SEX,SEX, BABY! Article 3

Here are two examples of how men will pervert their sense of honor in order to achieve some satisfaction of their insatiable instinctive need to receive honor. BE ADVISED: One example is rather benign, the other not so benign.

Example one: For 15 years I owned and operated a photography studio. We shot various types of photography but my partner and I were in very high demand to shoot weddings. The day of this particular wedding the weather was blue sky, cool, and quite windy. I was to meet the bridal party outside a Cathedral style building located on a college campus a block away from the church.

The purpose for us to meet there was to take the formal perfunctory posed photos before the ceremony and we were using the Cathedral style building as a backdrop. During that session a particularly strong gust of wind blew off the brides head piece, complete with veil, and it proceeded to ascend higher & higher and when it had ascended to about 75 feet up another gust of wind blew the head piece behind the first tier of the Cathedral and it disappeared from sight.

So now, everybody is looking at the bride & groom and all of them were sporting facial expressions as if to ask, "How should we feel about what we just witnessed"? It only took a couple seconds to find out. The bride started to cry and so all of the women cried in sympathy. However, the men had a different reaction. They all started to laugh simultaneously. The groom laughed so hard he had tears in his eyes and he also had to sit down on the Cathedral steps in order to catch his breath. And I photographically documented the entire scene. Meanwhile,

The men began to re live the event. One guy said, "Did you see how fast that baby (the veil) disappeared? It was like, now you see it, now you don't"! Then came more laughter.

The point is, a man who would laugh at the veil's demise is an example of men's "perversion of honor". I could go into even greater detail and share with you what else the men said and did to re live the moment but I think you get the picture.

Example two: I used to be a hunter. Deer hunting was one of my favorite aspects of the sport. Most often, I hunted deer with a group of guys that would get together a couple days before opening season for drinks, food, and such. Male bonding. No women, no children, just men.

In addition to male bonding, part of the process to prepare for opening day was to make certain that our rifles, all of which had scopes, were "sighted in" for accuracy.

To do this we would typically place a target on stacked bales of hay, directly behind the hay was a big mound of dirt where the bullets would be embedded. The distance from shooter to target was approximately 70 yards. We would each take turns sighting in our rifles for accuracy while another of us would man the telescope to watch where the bullet hit the target and report the accuracy of the shot to the shooter, who could then adjust the sights of the rifle accordingly. The idea of this is to hit the center of the target.

However, this particular year the guy who was responsible for bringing the targets did not bring them. So as a couple of the guys searched the cabin for range targets another guy very quickly came up with an idea for an alternative target. He brought out an older copy of Playboy magazine from the stack that was inside the cabin, removed the centerfold, drew a circle around the naval of the naked woman in the photo and then drew a couple more increasingly larger circles out to the end of the page. I took the centerfold, now turned target, out to the hay and positioned it straight up and down on one of the bales.

In the brief time it took for me to put the centerfold target in place and get back to the shooters area the idea had evolved from circling the naval to use as the targets "bulls eye", to the vaginal area of the photo instead. At that point target practice turned into a game that was euphemistically called, "Hit the Clit"!

Meanwhile, the interest level to "sight in" the rifles went up to be sure. Behind the shooter, instead of the typical group of us just milling around waiting for our turn to shoot, we were all looking through our scopes trying to see if the shooter had "Hit the Clit". If he did, someone would say something to the effect of, "Bulls Eye my main man...Bulls Eye"! And this would be complete with "High Fives" all around. If the shooter didn't make the mark the retorts would be less encouraging, such as, "Ah man come on, are you blind"?

And it didn't stop there. From the shooting range outside, the game continued inside as it morphed into "Hit the Clit" Darts.

Now think about this scenario. I am reasonably certain that not one of the men who took part in the game of "Hit The Clit" got sexually aroused as a result. It was our sense of honor, or rather the perversion of honor that motivated such behavior. Honor is an innate drive that men cannot help but have in the abundance they do. For men, this drive needs to be satisfied constantly. When they can't get it directly, men will often invent ways to achieve it indirectly. "Perversions of honor" is a major way for men to satisfy their need for honor indirectly.

How does this relate to sex? Playing "Who's your Daddy" during sexual intercourse is one example. There will be more on this subject in my next article. Meanwhile, stay tuned to the venue where you found this article for more articles on sexual oriented relationships. Or, for more info go to, www.garyjamesradioshow.com or www.sexsecretsaboutwpmen.com Be well.....Expect success.