Lies Vs. Truth in a Break-up

In society today we call it many names.Call it quits,breaking up, getting dumped. The funny thing is that it all means the same.Time to end the relationship.You can choose to end it on a good note and stay friends or choose to take it to war and break out all the guns.Very rare does it end up good.Most people say that breaking up is one of the hardest things to do.

Now you ask "War what do you mean by that?".Thats when it no longer lies in the boundries of truth.It's usually when the one that caused the damage begans a game.Where they turn what once was truth into a lie.Can you tell the truth from a lie? If you ask those who are around they will tell you that they cant tell.

Thats what is so confusing.Now the big question is why do they start lieing?Can they gain anything from it.I am sure that we all sometime in our lifes have been through this.So stop and think did you have anything to gain?

Not one person can say they are perfect.In someway shape or form we bend the truth either its to make us look better or to hurt the other.Depending on what we really want is how far we will take it.Pushing someone to the ultimate agressive nature of revenge.Should we stop before that point? Common sense says yes,but human nature says lets go.

The goal is to find male opions and female and way out lies v truth.I found that it was very amusing to ask these question to get the over whelming responses that I did.For the record man blamed women.Women blamed man.Remember there are no right or wrong answers. As men always say ladies first.Typical women response was the men never play fair.

They are quick to call you every name in the book.They speak before they think and dont't care who they hurt.Most say that the males do not stop untill the crush you.I asked the ladies to give examples of the lies that were said and this is what I got.

Amanda from New york -"My x went around and told everyone I slept with his brother in all reality his brother was the one hitting on me and I turned him down.

Krista from Florida - "My x slept with my best friend and got her pregnant,told everyone that i had cheated on him thats why he did what he did."

Betty from Geogia -"my x told the truth for the first 3 months,when he realized I wasnt coming back he started telling every lie he could think of."

Alright men now here where you get to fight back.Typical man response was women tend to add to the story just to make the bad seem worse.They can not make a statement with facts without putting a twist on it.Once you leave her is when she claims to be knocked up.Just to get you back and find out shes not..

Garrett from California--"My x slept with my brother,she claimed she was drunk and he took advantage."

Richard from California --"My x told everyone that I had cheated on her because she found a phone number in my pocket,I never did cheat.."

Brayson from Main--"My x called my parents and told them I was doing coke,and speed and that I needed to get help before I killed myself.I had to take a drug test just so they would believe me."

As you can tell male v female,truth v lies it all seems to be about even.Not one sex seems to out way the next.I am sure if we had found the partners of those above there would be a different story.The lesson we all need need to learn is to take what is said with a grain of salt.

Not let the other gain control of our emotions.If one stoops to a low level we do not follow.Revenge is not always the right answer or way of life..If we stop to think for one moment we will relieze that the only lies that were told were of how we truelly precieved the other person.So can one person tell the difference between truth and lie? Can you tell who acurately answered the question honest and who answered with a lie?