LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING?
Do You REALLY, REALLY Love?
What a wonderful subject for Valentine's day.
If you really think your love is everlasting, then you should ask yourself this: Is there anything in life that will be able to break this love?
Oh, I can think of a couple of things...Another woman / man, alcohol, hardships, physical abuse, worse - verbal abuse, more worse - psycological abuse...the list carries on.
All these instances I've mentioned, do you think your love will last through any of them? If so, well done, you are a person who has truly found love in your heart.
Love is supposed to be able to handle all things that life throws at you. Love is suppose to overcome all obstacles. Love is kind, forgiving, never seeks the bad and always sees the good. True love is everlasting.
BUT! What if you realise that your partner is the one with the obscured love for you? What if your partner is the one doing all those things to you and you realise - how on earth can he / she says it's real love? Because those instances prove just the opposite. If you are doing something like that to your partner, YOU DON'T LOVE YOUR PARTNER! LOVE doesn't hurt someone. Love doesn't need excuses for doing something horrible to someone!
The truth is, Love Conquers All. And if you are in the wrong, either review your love for your partner, or get out. But don't hurt someone you say you love. That person's love might be so strong for you that he / she is willing to look the other way. Until the day that you kill her love off.
Don't ever let that happen. Love regardless!
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10 Comments
Post a CommentIt's hard for us to imagine that anyone could confuse those kind of actions with love. I once had a friend tell me that 98% of the time, her husband was wondeful, attentive and thoughtful. But, the 2% of the time he was a monster. Love has to start with ourselves. If we don't love ourselves first, then we cannot love others like we should. Good article.
Beautifully written. Everybody could use a little love and understanding. Thanks for sharing.
when love is just a silent of voices, a pause to the actions, a lame excuses......:(
Got interuppted in posting. I beleive that God is love and love is god in action. The Christian Bible says "love does not rejoice in evil" and the opposite of love is hate. It was in that frame of mind (the start of your article) that seemed to suggest that one should keep on loving the man that beats the wife, because it is somehow a great love. Many women stay with men that abuse them becuase of love. I have heard of very few cases that their love changed the abuser, but many that the abuse esculates. Or sometimes, love does not conquer all.
I think my post may have mislead you about my feelings of love of the universal kind. "Love cures, both those who give it and those that receive it."
"Love is patient, love is kind, it does not keep a record of wrong doing.." so you forgive and forget the first time he cheats, and keep on loving him, and the second time he cheats, and the third. Through it all, as you suffer, he says "I love you" and lord will he make your life a hell on earth when you leave; sometimes to the point of killing you. I do not see how love can conquer it all. Perhaps if more people were capable of love in action, we could however make the world a better place.
iagree i think love is the answer to every thing
i agree with every thing you say
Agree with you. Love is something like air we can feel but we can't see!
I agree with you that Love conquers all. I believe that true Love is an undying commitment to love selflessly, forgive all the faults, and not hurt the other person. It's just a mental decision that one needs to work on to implement, to make it last forever.