Love and Dating Secrets, Sure Fire Clues Tell You He is into You!

Lisa Musser
If you're a single woman then you need to know the dating secrets. These are little clues in his personality and behavior that will tell you for sure if he is into you or not. And if he's not, then don't waste any more of your time on him, move on to the next candidate.

Women all over the world need a way to know whether or not a guy is really interested. We change our lives every time we meet someone new. Waiting by the phone because they said they'd call and turning down plans with friends because they might miss his call.

To quote a line from the movie( and you know which one I mean) "If he's not calling, he's just not interested". If he makes excuses for why he didn't call, he's lying! If a man really wants something he will make every effort to get it. If he's making excuses then he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. It will be a different excuse the next time-please don't' fall for it. Once is enough, a guy who consistently makes excuses for things isn't all that interested.
Here are some little clues for you, that will let you know that he is definitely interested.

1. He can't wait to spend time with you.

He always calls ahead to confirm your dates. This guy leaves nothing to chance; he wants to make sure that you haven't changed your mind about going out with him. Since he knows it's in bad taste to cancel a date at the last minute.

2. He's not in a hurry to end the date.

When the date is over, he asks if you would like to go get coffee, a drink or anything else to delay the ending of the evening. He is enjoying his time with you and doesn't want to see it end. He is using this time to his advantage by making sure he impresses you in any way he can, he wants you to keep seeing him.

3. He makes reference to future dates.

He tells you that a concert is coming up next Friday and he has tickets. Or that a new museum exhibit is opening next week, and then mention some things you might be interested in that will be there.

4. Seems genuinely interested in what you say.

He wants to know more about you. When you talk about your job, he asks questions to get you to elaborate more. He gives you his full attention and keeps good eye contact.

5. Calls often and calls when he says he will.

He calls at least every 2-3 days or so, not too often but he doesn't want you losing interest either. Someone who only calls once a week isn't all that interested. Otherwise he'd be calling to make sure you didn't make any dates with someone else this week. An Attentive guy stays on top of things.

6. Introduces you to his friends, co-workers and family members.

This is a big one. If a guy hasn't made up his mind that he is into you he will "forget" to introduce you when he runs into someone on the street. This also shows a lack of respect on his part as well as bad manners. If he's into you, he will proudly show you off to his friends.

7. Likes the physical contact; holding hands, walking arm in arm, but doesn't push for too much too soon.

He knows that this turns off a lot of women, and he doesn't want to risk ruining his chance of having a relationship with you. He reasons that if things work out like he hopes, that there will be plenty of time for intimacy.

8. He talks about the two of you in future tense.

Makes statements like "we should do this", or "we should go there". The appearance of the "we" statements shows he is thinking in terms of the two of you being a couple. He may just be testing the waters to see how you will react to what he said. If you are thinking the same way, then you would respond by saying something like "yes, we should do that".

Published by Lisa Musser

Lisa Musser is a Freelance Article Writer and Blogger.Recently became an over 40 mom again to a little boy. Her focus now is on parenting in the new age and empowering older mothers. Currently working on a...  View profile

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  • Russell Henley6/29/2009

    The same goes for dating women, too. A relationship is a mutual coming together of two individuals. It's okay if "he's just not into you", just as it's okay that she may not be. Finding "the one" should take a lot of thought and elimination.

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