Love Evaporates in a Marriage Before We Know What Has Happened

There are many marriages in our society today but a vast majority will evaporate into the winds because of various reasons. Marriage is not a union sealed for keeps, it takes lots of work, understanding, compassion, honesty, giving/taking, communication, and a deep seeded love to hold it together. We cannot say, "We love someone and mean it, if we do not keep the commandments of love with each other."

Marriage survives through communication, a willingness to give and to take, a desire to be sincere in the relationship, and to be a good listener. Being able to discuss and communicate with a partner joins a marriage at the hip. Active commitments to each other, i.e.,desires, likes and dislikes, sexual romantic discussions, and constant showing of your partner's concern, consideration, respect, faithness, by their side regardless where the road leads, never take a huge financial step without discussing and opting for an approval from the partner, never side in with another person against your spouse before discussing it with your partner, no flirting and being overly friendly with an opposite sex, keep the marriage interesting and display your affections, show dedication and loyalty, never point an accuation finger at a partner without knowing all of the situations, no deceiving, no lying, no dishonesty, and a constant bid to constantly keep a solid loving foundation alive in the marriage.

Oft times, a marriaqe gets off to a wrong start because the couple has not discussed and gone through their expectations of what they would like in their marriage. It's my belief, everyone who is going into a marriage should consider thinking about what they expect from their partner after they're married to them. All of these expectations should be discussed by both parties prior to their set wedding date.

Many couples only see the outside of their partner and not the real person who lives within. It is my opinio ,this is why so many marriages crumble and fall apart. No-one knows the real person until they're married to them. Get to know as much as you can before marriage, i.e. true values, beliefs, likes/dislikes, personality, etc., and when you do this you'll be ready to make a commitment.