Love Games Girls Play

Jamie Brown
Though the productivity of playing love games with a partner or potential lover is still unproven by studies, some women still like to play them. Love and dating games add a level of excitement to the relationship. But if a girl decides to play love games she should not go overboard or else it could backfire and cause the guy to look elsewhere for love. As a guy, know how to recognize a girl who is playing love games with you, and as a girl, know when to pull back from the game so that you can get on the path to a real relationship.

If He Doesn't Text, I'm Not Going To Either

Many girls know the dangers of behaving desperately on a date. But beyond the dating, how he chooses to communicate with the girl (and how frequently the communication occurs) is a huge sign of his interest (or disinterest). So some girls play this love game: "I'm not calling or texting him before he does."

That means that the girl will wait until the love interest texts first before texting in every situation. In some cases, this can be an effective strategy for a girl to adopt, but in other cases when you are not proactive about contacting someone who you are dating, you could simply be sending a signal that you are not interested.

I Don't Want to Be Intimate

Some girls also like to play love games regarding sex. She doesn't want to be seen as loose or easy, so she will reject the guy's sexual advances consistently. In many cases, this is more of a shrewd practice than a game because it makes her more of a challenge. The love interest is likely to pursue her with more determination when she demonstrates restraint in that area.

I'm Hard to Get

One love game that girls like to play is "hard to get." In some cases a woman might take that even further to the point of "impossible to get." This game only works if she shows some level of interest in the guy, while keeping her distance. It naturally goes along with the "no intimacy" game, since she will barely allow the guy to give her a kiss when playing "hard to get." In some cases, the game will backfire because the guy has other options and will get tired of chasing a girl who does not want to be caught.

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