Love at a Glance

Rocky Kamau
Like a cough love is inevitable, it is the moment one finds a partner with whom they share some common feelings. Any affection normally starts with dating. It may prove to be hectic in the initial stages but becomes fun when the two understand the purpose of the love. Some engagements would pass the threshold and yield to marriage while others may crumble at the onset.

The dating stage comes with anxiety of knowing the stranger well. At this stage both the parties are vulnerable but caution needs to be taken before yielding to any ground. Due to the anxiety of owning each other, some partners would not bother to know well the background of the partner they are about to engage with leave alone their last name. It may be due to desperateness or the need to get a companion after being in cold for quite sometime.

Some dates may prove only to be con merchant. According to love experts, the sign post of insincere lovers include missing dates and making numerous calls that goes unexplained. Special attention should be taken to dates who edges towards lending money and having inconsistent stories.

It is true that a partner may be genuine and in need of lasting relationship, however others are just players. There are several ways of detecting cheating lovers, for instance married partner would be obsessed with his ring and keeps on touching it for the better part of the time. Such individuals will prefer operating behind the scenes avoiding public appearance at all cost. They give excuses and avoid staying late in the night and would prefer being indoors during weekends.

A relationship with such barometers is unhealthy in the current society where AIDS pandemic is rampant. One should trust his/her instinct and avoid partners with a group of intimate relationship. In sensing non-committed partners, they may rush you through the deal by offering gifts like lift and paying your rent. Some would offer drinks like beer and claims your possession thereafter.

In a case where things may be moving too fast and a partner trying to make premature advances like holding your hands, you can stop them by pretending to be adjusting your hair. And for unwanted kiss, you can fake a cough and pretend that you have a cold. In a situation where strangers have gotten into love, it is advisable to let the ladies take the lead.

Published by Rocky Kamau

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