Lucky 7 Tips on How to Make a Girl Fall for You

Ted Sherman
Making a girl fall for you can often be a puzzling and difficult task, unless you're a rock star, sports hero or millionaire bachelor. For the ordinary guy, it takes some deep thought, clever planning and a few sly tricks to succeed.

A few simple tips can help guys at least make it to first base in the game of love.

1. Compliment: You can't miss with a shy miss on your date if you tell her how lovely she looks, admire her dress and generally make her feel good about herself ... and, of course, about you and how she may decide to fall for you.

2. Courtesy: Because of the poor examples of TV, music and movies, it may seem treating your date as a lady is ancient history. However, opening doors, helping her to her chair and other simple courtesies still work to help make a girl fall for you.

3. Gifts: Unless you're that millionaire bachelor, you can't afford expensive gifts for the girl. However, simple little things can be very effective. For example, offering a small bouquet when you arrive makes a great beginning for the date. At other times, a box of candy, a bag of her favorite cookies or a potted plant can help warm up the relationship.

4. Sobriety: For some girls, this may be the most important plus you can bring to the relationship. Excessive drinking not only can turn them off, but the fear of being in the car driven by a date who has had just one drink can turn off any potential feelings and respect she'd have for you.

5. Brain plus brawn: You'll impress her with your good physical shape, but your keen mind will most likely be the attribute that will make her fall for you. Intelligent conversation, as well as quotes from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, will prove what a bright guy you are.

6. Humor: A sense of fun helps establish a good relationship. Play miniature golf. Take her to the amusement park to ride the bumper cars and the roller coaster together. Knowing you'll always be fun to be with, she'll want to date you more and more.

7. No roaming eye: When you're with her, she must be the only girl in the world. If you're on a date with her and do too much guy bragging or show-off moves on other girls, you can expect it to be your last date with her. Show her respect and consideration, and you won't need to look for other girls.

If you're an intelligent guy, you really don't need tricks to make a girl fall for you. All you need to do is to make her feel as if she's the most important and beautiful girl you've ever met.

Published by Ted Sherman - Featured Contributor in Travel and Business & Finance

Navy service WWII and Korea, BFA, MA. Retired, experience: exec. speechwriter, advertising, sales promotion, PR, graphic art, photography, travel and humor writing. Follow me: @travel4seniors, Editor of tra...  View profile

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