Make Your Child Independent

"Many times children are unable to take their own decision themselves, because of their lack of confidence in taking proper decision, so make your children independent, so that they are able to take the right and correct decision for themselves in future aspects"

It is found that in many families' a child always remain child, even though he is studying in the college, he always remain a child to his parents, but not only that they take their decision about the carrier of their own child. Child may wish anything, but they have to take the permission of their parents on even in taking a small decision, they are not even independent to take their own decisions. As a result it is seen that child at his young age, he is not able to take proper decision on his/her own, due to lack of self confidence, in him/her.

So it is good when a child is about 8to9 years of age please give him/her the right to take his/her own decision himself/herself that is like at what time he/she has to play, when he/she has to do his homework and complete his/her studies, how long he/she has to watch the programs on television. This is the right age when child needs to know what is right and what is wrong. Allow him/her to take his/her own decision that is what he/she has to do, what does he/she likes, and if he/she is confused and than parents help him/her to take the decisions then he/she will be more confident in his/her decision making.

During this modern age, most of the parents that is mother and a father both is working, so this parent has to left on their children to take their own decisions. Like what to do after coming back from the school? How long he/she has to play? What clothes he/ she have to wear in the house? Etc. with the help of all this things their child becomes more independent and self confident with comparison to other children's. In spite parents also has to look after their child that their children are able to take their own decisions properly and rightly and up to their capacity. Sometimes many children who are given the rights to take their own decision are sometimes taking wrong decision also, so parents have to look after this also properly, so that they are not going on the wrong path.

Today many parents instead of giving encouragement to their children, they give them the facilities to solve any of the problems that is like whenever children ask about some mathematics problem they have to teach them how to solve the problem to their parents to solve but they put calculator in the hands of their children and ask them to solve it. As long as the children are given more and more facilities, they are not able to make decision about that what they wish and for this they are not able to take their own decisions in their future problems. And for this he always stays wrong to his parents.

When children is trying to ask you anything about his problem please listen to him properly do not ignore him/her just by saying that he/she is too small for all this things and for this they are afraid of asking of anything to their parents. To increase your children self confidence in them please listens to each and every thing they ask you and please do not ignore them.

Each and every child is having some specialization in each and every field they like, so parents always have to look after the capacity of their child and on that basis they have to choose their future carriers, if child is interested in becoming a doctor, don't force him to become a painter otherwise all will go wrong in his future carrier and he will get upset too.

It also depends on the parents that how self confidence their parents are in taking their own decisions. And if mother has to depend on father to take decision and vice versa then the children will also be dependent on them to take their own decision.

Always make your child self independent and self confident, so that they can take their own a decision in their future carrier life with thinking of what is right and what is wrong.