Making a scrapbook for an adopted child: How to handle the early years
The main problem with making a scrapbook for an adopted child is the lack of pictures from the very beginning of his or her life. Unless you adopted the child directly from the birth mother, you will probably have very little information about how your baby entered the world. A possible solution to this is to focus on the child's entry into your family's world. Pictures of you and your spouse meeting the child for the first time or even talking to the adoption agency can be a good way to start off a scrapbook for an adopted child.
Making a scrapbook for an adopted child: Foreign adoptions
If you have adopted a child from another country, consider making a section in the scrapbook for pictures depicting that country's culture. Depending on age, your adopted child may have no memories at all of his or her native land. Put together a fact sheet about the birth country and some of its traditions or customs. Pictures from travel magazines from the city of the adopted child's birth work well for these types of scrapbooks.
Making a scrapbook for an adopted child: Your child's current interests
Once your adopted child has been in your family for awhile, you will know about many of his or her hobbies and interests, so add these to your scrapbook as well. For example, if your adopted son enjoys skateboarding, go outside and take a few action shots of him performing his favorite trick. Academic awards or any other achievements the child has earned are also a good fit for an adopted child's scrapbook. Instead of focusing on the adopted child's past, you can make the scrapbook center around present-day life in your family.
Making a scrapbook for an adopted child: Including the birth mother
Depending on the arrangement with your adopted child's birth mother, you may also want to make a scrapbook to send to her. Some birth mothers find it too painful to hear about how their child is doing, but others may enjoy seeing how the child is progressing through life. Making scrapbooks showing the important events in your adopted child's life is a good way to keep the birth mother involved and show her that the child is in a loving family.
Published by Joyce Ryan
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