Man Arrested for Molesting Ex-Girlfriend's Daughter

Stanley was a normal guy. He was the only male of four children, which kind of gave him an advantage on how to handle women. He never really had problems dating or getting a girlfriend, as he was a very handsome man. He'd been in prior relationships before and has beautiful children but those relationships did not work. In many cases of being a handsome man he found himself being caught up with woman who fell absolutely head over hills with him and did not take it well when he wanted to end the relationship. He never thought he'd find himself doing time because he told a woman no!

Stanley and Lisa were together for some months now but their relationship had been rocky from the beginning. They constantly fought and argued and Stanley grew very tired of it. He'd always told Lisa that if things didn't change then they would need to go their separate ways and Lisa always took that statement very hard. Still, no matter how hard she'd taken it things still seemed to go the same way. So one day Stanley had had it! He was ready to end the relationship, and that he did. He explained to Lisa that he was tired of being in an unstable relationship and wanted to only be friends. Lisa didn't take it well at all. Her reaction was like a two-year-old throwing a temper tantrum. She yelled and she screamed and she cried. She just refused to accept that he no longer wanted to be with her. She had no choice because he was serious and had already begun to limit how much he sees and speaks to her. He knew that she was not going to let him go that easily but he also knew that there was no way that he was staying with her. So he didn't stop talking to her completely but he did keep his distance. He eventually moved to another state for a little while, as he really needed to put some space between them.

So he finally moves back home but now was staying with his mother whom happens to live downstairs from Lisa. Yet Stanley still made no real effort to get back together with her. One day Lisa calls Stanley and says "I know what you did to my daughter" and then she hangs up the phone. Stanley figured it was just a cry for attention in hopes that he would call back and communicate with her. After about an hour and no response from him she calls back and again says, "I know what you did to my daughter". Then the phone rings again and she repeats it again but this time she says that she's going to call the police. He knew the type of person Lisa was and did not trust her. So he went to the police station and told them that he wanted to make a report because his ex-girlfriend kept calling his home threatening to call the police to accuse him of something that he did not do. They said there was nothing they could do for him because he had not been accused of a crime.

A few weeks later as he was driving he was pulled over by the police. They asked if he was Stanley and when he replied yes they asked him to step out of the vehicle. When asked why he was told that there was a warrant out for his arrest. Miss Lisa called and reported that he had molested her 16-year-old daughter. Stanley was in shock! He tried to explain to the police about their break up and the phone calls she had made to his home in regards to her daughter, and how he had gone to the police station to try to find out how he could protect himself from being falsely accused. They told him to tell it to the judge.

So he goes to court and stands before a female judge who absolutely did not want to hear what he had to say, far as she was concerned he did it! Even though there was no proof of any sort, he was still treated guilty before being proven innocent. So he was told that he could not have any contact with minor children, including his own, he had to be put into a program and was given a probation officer. He really could not bear the thought of not being able to interact with his kids but he knew he was innocent and hoped that it would soon be proven.

So he attended the program and at the same time he had children of his own that he had to support so he had to work. At times the program times would conflict with his work schedule but his counselor from the program did not care. He and Stanley had often had verbal disputes, in which the counselor would call him a rapist, and child molester. So Stanley would constantly complained to his probation officer about his counselor's behavior and finally after three months his probation officer came to one of the sessions. At the session the counselor began to talk down to Stanley leading to another verbal dispute and Stanley told his probation officer that he was not attending anymore of those meetings and she threatened to violate him.

So he said fine and instead of going to the meetings he started working everyday to support his kids.

Four months later he was at work and was arrested and taken to court. The judge told him that it didn't matter that he was trying to be there for his kids because he was already restricted from seeing them. She said that if he would reenter the same program that he left that he would be able to walk out of court that day. Stanley said that he was tired of being disrespected, ridiculed and mistreated for something that he did not do. If he wasn't going to be allowed to be around his children, or put into another program, then he would rather do all the time they give him and when he was done he wouldn't have to answer to no one and would be able to be with his kids. He was sentenced to four years and still remains in jail today.

Stanley has never been arrested prior to this case, he had no record and was a good father trying to support his family. Now he has a felony charge, which will prevent him from being able to find a job when he comes home and he will have to register as a sex offender. His entire life is now ruined because he said no. There's no greater wrath than that of a woman scorned. The State of Connecticut is truly woman's state. Grace&Peace. Myra Smith.