Married People Looking Online for Love - Is it Cheating or Harmless?
More and more daily men and women in America and outside of the united states are going online to chat rooms weather it is adult chat, romance chat or just a chat room dealing with their favorite television shows such as American Idol chat rooms on yahoo. The men and women who go on these chat rooms though sometimes are married and claim not to be so that they can find love online.
This raises the question of If you are married and go online looking for romance is it considered cheating? Or is this online love romance harmless? To some men and women who are lonely and maybe not getting enough attention from their significant others they may think that online romance is harmless.
The men and women who feel this way may also tell you that the reason it is harmless is because they are just flirting and there is nothing wrong with that because they are still deeply in love with their significant others. The Men and women who are going online looking for love may also tell you that online chatting looking for romance is fun and harmless simply for the fact that the person whom they are connecting with lives half way around the country therefore there is no way that they will be able to meet their online romance. They can only see pictures and see their webcam there for nothing can really happen.
But how do the significant others of the men and women who go online looking for love feel about the situation you may wonder? Sadly enough some of the significant others do not know that their wife or husband is even going online chatting with strangers let along looking for love. For some of them they are away at work when it happens and don't think twice about it.
For others they feel that by their significant other going online looking for love that they aren't good enough for them and that is considered cheating because they are still even though its online sharing the bond like a married or dating couple and at times sending provocative photos.
So what do you think? Do you consider looking for love online cheating or harmless. I believe it is cheating because if you are looking for love else where you should not be with whom you are with if you don't have feelings for them like you should.
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Post a Commentiam also a marrried woman.. who for the first went into a chatroom and met a lonely married guy. We bascially talked about anything. But now we both admitted feelings for each other and i find myself thinking about him more than i should be.. hes like a drug.. to where i can find myself being addicted to him.The sad thing is.. i dont know how to quit.
My advice for you girls. Dump your pervert boyfriends/husband if you caught him masturbating or having cyber sexing with someone else. If you want to save your marriage then find marriage therapist. Try to be happy and don't let this pig's to ruin your self esteem.
My question is... should I forgive him? Will I ever trust him again? My husband joined several "Local Sex Tonight" sites and claims it was out of curiousity. I did notice when I went into the site under his user name that he lied about his age by 20 years. (I checked them all out before confronting him.) I am so hurt and my self-esteem is crushed to bits.
I agree with you on that one. Nothing wrong with that but you are right after awhile for me it gets old. Besides sometimes it is nice to have people talk to.
I agree with you on that one. Nothing wrong with that but you are right after awhile for me it gets old. Besides sometimes it is nice to have people talk to.
I feel its cheating its not only physical but emotional. With my fiance i woke up this mourning and a girl he had been chatting with online he was now talking to her on the phone and masterbating. Remind you im 7 months pregnant. He said he didnt think it would hurt me I have told him before i dont like the online chatting. Then he lied and said it was someone far away no she lives a town away. And he sent her pice of him naughty and nice ones. Now what am I suppose to do this is my first baby. Im hurt and crying.
I feel its cheating its not only physical but emotional. With my fiance i woke up this mourning and a girl he had been chatting with online he was now talking to her on the phone and masterbating. Remind you im 7 months pregnant. He said he didnt think it would hurt me I have told him before i dont like the online chatting. Then he lied and said it was someone far away no she lives a town away. And he sent her pice of him naughty and nice ones. Now what am I suppose to do this is my first baby. Im hurt and crying.
It's easier for some to say it's not cheating; maybe they are currently happy in their relationship and so does not find the need to look for love elsewhere.
I have been married for 17 years and my wife has 'closed up shop' for the past 5 weeks. She does this everytime we have an
argument/disagreement or if she is not happy with something. Once I waited 4 months before she finally came around. She even
refuses to kiss me when leaving the home or on her return. Now, I admit I have my faults but so does she. I have never witheld myself from her even when I am not happy about something. We are on speaking terms but I also need and crave her love and affection. I need for her to cuddle me at nights like she used to, not sleeping on opposite sides of the bed like I have an infectious disease. It is driving me nuts. Sometimes I cannot sleep at night. It's almost like staring at a gorgeous woman on the train and knowing full well you cannot have her. I am not the type of guy
I know it's a long time ago since anyone wrote here, but speaking from experience...someone WILL get hurt and it may end up being you.
If you wouldn't do it with your loved one standing behind you watching you, you shouldn't do it! I feel like if you can't talk about it with the person y ou love, you shouldn't be doing it.
Maybe if the people who were surfing the net looking for people to chat with spent more time working on their carears/relationships, the real world would be just as fun and exciting as the virutal one.