Meeting Lovers on the Astral Plane

One of the comments left on my previous article about sex on the astral plane (click here to read) was left by medievalquarter who asked, "I wonder which matters most to ppl-astral sex or real sex.".
Now this is a really interesting question. And I like answering interesting questions LOL. So - please if you have any questions feel free to ask them via the comments section.

I discovered astral lovers not too long after my long term marriage of 18 years broke up. The ex was a bit of a sex addict - though I had completely no complaints about that at the time. It was kinda nice to be a sex queen for an ever ready audience!!
So - perhaps it was because of the high sex content of our marriage that I so much missed the sex and this could be why I found myself roaming around on the astral plane picking up various lovers.
Indeed a close friend of mine called me, "an astral slut" who might be in the running to catch astral HIV-AIDS.

I did have quite a number of 'regulars'. And they were the types of people that, in 'real life' I imagine would not be attracted to each other in any way on the physical plane of existence. They were men with whom I imagine it would be highly unlikely that either of us would initiate a date or any other form of contact.
And I soon noticed that these astral lovers had regional properties. In other words they came from locations whose time zones were very similar to my own. People asleep and dreaming at the same time I was.
I had no lovers from European or USA locations.

I had one regular lover who lived in an apartment block in Hong Kong. I swear that if I ever visited Hong Kong that I would be able to find his apartment! This man was single. And I think that in real life we could have been quite compatible.
Though not all my lovers were single - and this poses yet another set of questions (keep posted).

I had another regular who was an Indonesian peasant rice and vegetable farmer who had a wife and several small children whom he happily introduced me to one night on the astral plane. Though he never did introduce me to his wife. After a year or so he stopped visiting me because the quality of his marriage improved.
It didn't occur to me at the time that I might have been able to give him some sexual and relationship counseling to even help him with his marriage issues. Such awareness that therapy could be given on the astral plane did not occur to me until a few years later when I became the 'sorcerers apprentice' to an Australian Aboriginal shaman woman.

Yet another of my regulars was an Aussie farmer.
Then there were quite a number of one-nighters and other short termers of varying ilk too.
Yes - life surely was very busy for me on the astral plane when I was asleep.
I did puzzle a bit about my astral lovers and their significance but accepted that sex on the astral was possible and just enjoyed them for a while.
At least you couldn't get pregnant or catch STD's.

So now back (for a little while) to that question asked by medievalquarter, "I wonder which matters most to ppl-astral sex or real sex."?

Astral sex does have certain advantages - besides the obvious ones of not getting pregnant or catching STD's. It's also inexpensive and your heart never gets broken. And your physical appearance and capacities are also irrelevant.
This is because astral sex tends to happen on a very deep soul level where such things are the province of mere mortals easily distracted from the real task in hand.
Our guards are down and the ego has been abated and put safely to rest.
On the astral plane our choice of lovers is not ruled by our mind or ego. The often rigorous requirements we may put our 'real life' lovers through in order for them to be deemed worthy of our attentions becomes completely and utterly redundant. And we don't have to be good at flirting, dancing, singing, spending money or whatever else we may use to turn on the attentions of real or prospective lovers on the physical plane either.

Therein lies the tremendous and boundless potency of astral sex.

As another interesting aside astral sex does not generate 'white light' either.
The topic of white light is entirely another area related to sex. Keep posted.

I do believe that the potency of astral sex could be harnessed and used therapeutically.
Astral sex is very satisfying because it happens on such a deep soul level.
In more normal, awake sex on the physical plane many things influence or inhibit the true potential that sex has to be a gateway into the divine. This area is the province of Tantra.

If we wanted to get analytical about our astral encounters we could learn a lot about our own issues and any baggage that may be blocking our ability to meet with a real life better lover on the physical plane; a person such as with whom our souls could be far more connected and compatible. Most of us spend our lives trying to perfect the art of finding the right lover.
Perhaps you could take a rest from your pursuit of the ideal lover, save lots of money, avoid much heartbreak and ache and get into a bit of astral-slutting for a while in order to find out more about what your inner soul truly finds edifying and liberating before finally, one day walking off into the sunset with your accomplished Tantric Lover; your lover who can take you through the divine gates of sex into the white light where you may both be conjoined to access together the divine, transformational and liberating experience of deep soul sex on the physical plane.
Such a lofty ideal might well be worth the pursuit to my mind.

Accessing the therapeutic value via an analysis of who happens to be your astral lover/s might be something better and more successfully approached with a therapist who is used to working and performing healings via the potential of the astral plane.
Might I become the world's first astral sex therapist?
All joking aside; if you're not interested in such therapy - just lie back and enjoy the deep soul connection that meeting your astral lover/s can bring you. You'll wake up feeling pretty good.

Hope this answers your question medievalquarter??
Keep posted.