Memoirs of a College Student: A Guide to a Great College Experience

In just a few weeks, college students will be packing their bags and heading to the land of the independence (well, in their minds anyway) and in the realm of academic world. For many students, this will be their first year in college and that means the learning lessons in life as well as school will begin. As someone who has been in college for awhile, I can say that the student guide given to students by colleges and universities are not as informative as they appear to be. Sometimes the booklets neglect to inform students about the ins-and-outs of really communicating with others. This is an important issue because networking is a big part of the college experience. Without it, you miss out on lots of opportunities when all it took was a simple hello or a welcoming smile to get someone to notice what you have to offer the world.

For some students, going through the admissions and financial aid process is a walk in the park. They are able to get scholarships and complete a great schedule, and find a decent dorm and dorm mate all in the same semester. For lots of others, the chaos begins once the admission papers are filled out. They have to apply for student loans and sign their life away on numerous papers, their semester schedule has gaps as wide as a football field, and they get stuck with a dorm room under construction and a suite mate that needs 'psychiatric assistance.' Now, does the university brochure prepare students for this? I think not. As a matter of fact, I know they don't because the list of complaints from students about this issue or that is constantly on the rise no matter what university they attend. Of course there are Resident Advisors and other coordinators available for assistance, but the channels of bureaucracy in college administration can sometimes be a pain.

Why is this guide needed?

I want incoming college students to walk into their experience with their eyes wide open. Many students find themselves unconcerned about what's going on around them and that leaves them vulnerable to disappointments all across the board. These three tips will help you to have a stress free college experience.

MAKE GOOD USE OF CALENDAR: Timing is everything. Being on time and doing things way before the due date can put you ahead of the game every time. This can mean filling out your FAFSA every year, registering for classes, applying for scholarships, applying for summer internships, etc. I cannot tell you how many times I wish I had used my calendar and kept up with certain dates because in truth, I've missed a few great opportunities as a result. Stay ahead with visits to the school's website, ask around periodically about what's going on around campus, and just be the early bird that gets the worm!

KEEP GOOD RECORDS: I have everything that I ever had from the U of M because keeping record is important. It speaks of organization and making sure that you are backed up on the account of any misunderstandings. I have records and copies of everything - so if there is anything I need to revert back to - it's on hand in my file cabinet.

NETWORK, NETWORK, NETWORK! If there is one thing I know, then that thing is who you know can be the answer to everything. If you are having problems with a certain subject, scope around, find the student who is good at the subject, and stick with them. Are you looking for a summer internship? Stick around the student employment services section and attend career fairs around the university. Join organizations that really make things happen in the community and on campus. People are your outlet to vast potential.

College will always be a learning experience for students, faculty, or administrators. Each year provides new innovations, rules and regulations, and a diverse mixture of people. Be a good planner and organize your academic career to suit you. Follow this guide and see how easier your four years will be!