Men Who Cannot Accept Rejection

She had been through enough today with a flat tire, running late for work, no gas and then mandatory overtime at the office. The last thing she wanted, was to be hit on; The lady knew the man was heading her way. She tried to act as if she didn't see him. But to her surprise, the man wasn't just a pest, he actually had a good conversation. One she was in need of; he made her laugh and soon she forgot about the tiring day she had just completed. They exchanged phone numbers.

She called him two days later and their first date was set. Two weeks passed, filled with fun, romantic nights and gifts galore! The lady felt like she had found her Prince Charming, but didn't want to rush things; she waited to call him for a week. Little did she know, her Prince Charming was stalking her in the dark because he felt that she was rejecting him. One day, she had lunch with a few of her coworkers, male and female. By the time they had been seated and ordered their appetizers, he stormed into the restaurant, accusing her of cheating. Of course she denied it, and it made him even furious. At this point, the lady demanded for him to leave for fear of embarrassment. But by the time he had left the restaurant, she had already made it up in her mind that she would not see or call him again.

Of course this made the man grow even more irate, and he would show up at her job, and her home demanding that she talk to him and tell him why she had rejected him. The lady hadn't actually rejected him until he had made a scene at the restaurant. She couldn't understand how he could take it so hard when there were plenty of other women for him to be with.

Rejection is hard for all of us; but some do tend to take it harder than most others, and why is it?

First off, allow me to just be partial and state that rejection is apart of acceptance just as well as good is with bad, and up is with down; when you get one-you are bound to get the other. I state this to get the understanding that all things are possible, and you must take each and every one of them as you breath. I'm not saying to just 'lay' down and 'take' it; but know that it does exist. And knowing this will help with coping with it. Trust me, I've been through my fair share of disappointments, rejections, let-downs and a heap more...but with each one, I've also had the pleasure of being on top of my game, ahead of the class, accepted by most and revered by many!

This article isn't about me, but to get a point across that I have witnessed many to fear rejection, but not as many as the males! If there are any out there who wish to make comment on this; to either debate or agree, please do so!

And to make my point stand....Of course a woman is going to take rejection just as hard, and there are some who may go a bit 'crazy' because of it; But generally when a guy gets rejected-he lashes out! Not just at one person, but to every other female in line for it. And that's not fair!!!