Build him up
Tearing a man down or nagging doesn't work and it may only piss him off. When he gets angry he will get stubborn and not willing to do anything. Instead of getting upset and hollering at him say something sweet to him. You could tell him how big and strong he is and you can't do it yourself and need his big strong arms. Even though he knows your flattering him he will fall for it anyway. The best way to get a man to do anything is to stroke his ego and make him feel wanted. He will drop what he is doing and help you out.
The power of the whisper
There is nothing more exciting to a man to have a woman whisper in his ear. Whether you just say you love him or that he is the man he will respond. It doesn't even have to be something sexual just a word that either compliments him or makes him feel loved and needed. Women do not always realize the power they have to motivate their man by just saying something sweet to him and whispering it in his ear. I can guarantee you will turn his head if you use this approach on him. Where it goes from there is entirely up to you. I will guarantee you will get his attention.
Single word compliments
Telling your man things like awesome, sweet, outstanding, etc. You would be amazed how simple one word compliments will do for him. He loves to hear from the one he loves how much you love him or how much he turns your world upside down. You like him complimenting you well so does he like it when you compliment him. Everyone has something they are good at. If he feels he is appreciated he will do more.
Words can hurt and they can also build up. Its very possible to take a negative situation and begin to turn it around and make it positive one. If you find it difficult to compliment him look for one thing and start from there. I will guarantee you that soon you find more to compliment him on. Positive attitudes breed positive just like negative breeds negative. You have the power to change a situation by what you say.
If people would only be aware of the power we have in our words the world would be a much better place. Start today by encouraging your man and watch how much it will affect your relationship.
Published by Timothy Scheiman
I am 59 years old and I have been buiding and fixing computers for many years. Last year I started writing at AC. I found it fun and profitable. It also gave me a chance to share what I know. View profile
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6 Comments
Post a Commentcompliments, y not just say hes amazin, he makes u smile, u feel safe in hes arms, hes gawjus. you would if you loved them i do.
Well written! :)
Nice article Timothy :-)
very true, ive recently realized, but im glad to see you wholeheartedly agree because i have been somewhat skeptical about this recent conclusion. i myself need to take this advice and compliment the men i date more. i will try these tactics immediately as my dating life is not in good shape at the moment!=)
So true. Sometimes, I think men need more compliments than women!
Yeah, a little "Your chest looks great in that shirt, been doing some push ups?" or "I bet you could totally kick Ken Shamrocks butt" are good non fruity sounding comments that us men enjoy lol. No "Wow you can vacuum great!" that just makes it worse lol.