Men Who Secretly Sleep with Men (Living on the Down Low)

Zenovia B.
"Me think dost protest too much," or maybe not enough. Last week a celebrity/bishop has been accused of doing the very thing his whole foundation or ministry is based on.....being against homosexuality or same sex marriages. Hypocrisy once again shows its dirty little head.

So once again it comes down to a man being on the down low and living a double life. Having a wife and maybe kids and in the dark having a insatiable appetite for young men.

People today try to convince you and I that it is OK to be attracted to someone of the same sex, well if it is.....then why may I ask are people doing it in the dark, prowling on the streets at night looking for their tryst? And more insulting than that they are the very ones who seem to throw the names around and jokes around about being gay.

The term down low is a term used in the black culture referring to a man usually identified as heterosexual, but who have sex with men and avoids sharing this information with their sexual partners, usually their girlfriends and wives.

Personally I believe what the bible says about fornication, whether is be with the same sex or opposite. There are so many scriptures that state how God feels about homosexuality and fornication starting from the book of Genesis to Revelations. However the two that comes to mind right now is found at 1 Corinthians 6: 9 & 10, " Do not be mislead neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who lie with men, nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God's kingdom." Also according to the bible having sex with someone of the same sex is not natural. Romans 1: 26 & 27, "For this cause God gave them unto vile affections; foe even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."

People get angry when you tell them how you feel about homosexuality, but just like they have the right to have a opinion for it, don't I have a right to have a opinion against it?

Once again I will ask these questions: do you have a boyfriend or husband that has male friends that dominate his time? Or in this particular instance a crusader that wants to help the young men get off the streets and turn their life around? Does he spend the night with these "friends" often? Does he sometimes say things about homosexuals and you wonder where did that come from? Have you as a woman had feelings that something was not quite right with your relationship but you dismiss it? Maybe you are in a financial secure relationship, or you just feel secure period. If you find yourself answering yes to these questions then it is possible that you are with a man on the down low.....Ladies trust your instinct.

Published by Zenovia B.

My name is Zenovia Barksdale and I am 45 years old, mother and grandmother. I have written a book, "I Refuse To Be Lonely and also the "Beauty and Strength Of A Woman." at www.lulu.com  View profile

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  • y.a.2/15/2011

    fornication is fornication no matter which way you look at it, God's law clearly states that sex is only supposed to be between a married man and his wife, period.

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