When you encounter a circumstance that is defined as a failure by society, or by you, remember that there is no failure. Every path that you take is the path that you focused on, and what others call a failure is just one moment in a life; a time when someone focused on the result of what they didn't want. This isn't a failure, this is a circumstance to learn and grow from. There is no shame in creating what you didn't want. Think about how great it is that you created something. Now that you know how to create intentionally through the Law of Attraction you can look back and see all the 'mistakes and failures' as just a path that was focused on, and you learned from the experience that it is definitely the road you don't want to take. Remember: Failure is a word, not a person.
Be easy on yourself and don't judge your whole life by a single event or circumstance. Each moment is a new one and a new beginning, so create joy for yourself. Driving on the road of 'don't wants' will only bring you more of the same.
Release the words failure and mistake and replace them with learning and growing because that is exactly what you are doing throughout your whole physical life; learning and growing through your physical self is what life is all about.
So what do you do about the people who won't let you forget the huge 'mistake(s)' you made? You know the answer. You know what you learned from the experience. If someone brings up your past let them know that you did your best with whatever knowledge and experience you had then. Now you know where you are headed. This makes it no longer something to be held over your head. If they need to continue to relive your mistake, let them. That is their world to create but you don't need to be a part of it anymore.
No one is a failure. Failure is just a word that breeds negative feelings. Leave failure and mistakes of the past behind. You have better things to do with your time...like create a whole new world full of wonderful circumstances engineered through the Law of Attraction.
Published by Beth and Lee McCain
Beth and Lee McCain are two of the most prolific authors on the subject of the Law of Attraction, also known as The Secret. Please visit: http://www.bethandleemccain.com for more Law of Attraction informat... View profile
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