Mom is Starting a New Job! Tips to Help Ease the Transition

Emily Harmon
Starting a new job is always a difficult transition, especially for a busy mom. Even if you've landed your dream job, you will still face challenges as your acclimate yourself to the new position. Here are some important tips to help make your transition into a new job as smooth as possible for yourself and your family.

Practice your new schedule. When you start a new job you will most likely be facing a new schedule. Perhaps you'll need to wake up a little earlier now, or maybe you'll be getting home later. Whatever the change, make sure you practice it with your family a week prior to starting the new job. If you used to take showers in the morning but now you'll be taking showers in the evening to save time, practice this. If dad will be taking the kids to school instead of mom, practice this as well. Being comfortable with your new schedule before it becomes a requirement will help your family to ease into the changes.

Ask lots of questions. Don't be afraid to ask tons of questions when you first start your new position. You will be much better off feeling a little uncomfortable asking numerous questions than if you decide to just try and do things on your own and end up making mistakes. Employers and coworkers are used to new employees needing some assistance so don't be shy and when in doubt, always ask. It is appropriate even to ask about small things such as where to put your lunch and whether or not most coworkers go out to eat for lunch, or eat in the break room (if there even is a break room-ask about this too!).

Get as much information as possible ahead of time. If you happen to know someone who works for the company or organization you'll soon be working for, ask the person questions about the job ahead of time. Research the company on the internet and gain as much information as possible. The more you know about your new position before the first day of work the easier the transition will be.

Understand that the first weeks will be hard. A final and very important tip for easing the transition to a new job is to simply understand and accept that starting any new job is difficult. You may feel very lost at first. Your family may have some difficulty adjusting to the new schedule. Your benefits have probably changed. You'll have to get used to new coworkers and new bosses. You might face guilt over being gone from home a little more. This time of transition is hard for every mom who starts any new job. Just keep in mind that after about a month things will be much, much easier.

Starting a new job is very exciting but also produces a ton of anxiety. These tips will help ease the transition into any new position.

Published by Emily Harmon - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle

I am a happily married mom of an elementary school aged boy and toddler girl. I work full time in the education/library field and part time as a crafter/artisan.  View profile

8 Comments

Post a Comment
  • Kelly H.11/3/2007

    Excellent information on this difficult transition!

  • jennybeans11/3/2007

    Great insights!

  • Elena H.10/28/2007

    Good tips.

  • Lisa Riggs10/27/2007

    Fantastic article! I worked full time for about a year when my youngest was four. She had a terrible time adjusting. I went to work every day with a stomach ache worrying about her. I was very nervous reentering the work force after being home for so long. Luckily, the company I worked for was very family friendly and everyone there was a parent too.

  • Zac Wassink10/26/2007

    some great information

  • Carol Bengle Gilbert10/26/2007

    A big adjustment for all. Helpful tips.

  • Mommy2Lots (M2L)10/26/2007

    Great tips! I know if I ever went back to work, my kids might have a hard time adjusting. I would as well. These are sure to help people out. :-)

  • Jody10/26/2007

    Great article! I can imagine how difficult this must be for children to adjust to.

Displaying Comments

To comment, please sign in to your Yahoo! account, or sign up for a new account.