More Reasons Why Bad Boys Get the Girl and Nice Guys Finish Last
Furthermore, nice guys know not how to show interest as more than friends. Bad boys are more likely to simply go for what they want, without hesitation. This is confidence, pure and simple. Women want a guy self assured enough to go for what he wants instead of just sitting back waiting for it to come to you.
Guys need to be confident, self-assured, positive, not be afraid to be true. Don't be a wuss, don't be indecisive, don't whine about how nice guys get screwed over, and don't put on a show.
Nice guys tend to not realize that females are sexual creatures too. This isn't to say be a horndog, but DO NOT EVER be afraid of your own sexuality. Be bold. Flirt, kiss her, roughhouse with her, poke at her, mess with her, just plain have fun. It's what you did as kids, except with more refinement.
I want to choke every time I hear someone tell a nice guy "just keep waiting, you will find someone, girls at younger age like the bad boys but will eventually come around". BLEHHHHH! Why do we want some chick who has been used, screwed, and tossed by bad boys and now has some motherload of baggage, when we could have the still pure, un-jaded girl? It takes confidence, my friends. Assertiveness, respectful leadership, going for what you want, and no hesitation.
It is better to fail by being TOO bold than by not being bold enough. Boldness and niceness are not polar opposites. A guy who is nice, and who is confident/bold/assertive, is the kind of guy every sane woman wants. There's no arguing that.
This is all a little disorganized, but the main point is, it's not that women want jerks over nice guys. It's that they want masculinity over no masculinity; confidence over cowardliness; assertiveness over passiveness; sexuality over asexuality; protector over someone who needs a protector; leader over follower; strength over weakness; strong genes over weak genes; a little danger and uncertainty as opposed to total tameness and predictability. Can you fault them for it?
A confident nice guy is a rare and valuable commodity; this is a nice guy who realizes that being a MAN in the world of dating and relationships is a capitalistic venture, that if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen. No matter what feminists might want you to think, making the move and initiating is still largely the guy's job. Don't hate it. Embrace it.
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This post is utter garbage. Nice guys if you are ever asking this question, it is because you are looking for the wrong girls. This guy is just stereotyping and is just as ignorant as the people he is writing about. Find someone who is like you, nice. As for the girls that get with the jerks, they have no substance. Girls who like nice guys, those are the winners. Good luck to all struggling with this.
Ps. I'm nice and I can bench 320...am I still a sissy?
Evan, it may not be part of every man's journey to realize this truth but it was mine. Most people are boring but especially women. Guys do most of the fly stuff in life both for good and bad. Most inventors are male same goes for warriors and criminals. If its fun, illegal, warped, or kinky then chances are there is a man or two behind it.
Double posting! Look below for the beginning
Moster up some courage and go to her, if rejected. Take it like a man, even though you are shy in nature...somebody might be watching you take that rejection fairly well, and see that you won't eagerly cling to others!
Adious amigos
Well, even though I consider myself "nice" does that mean over under the "nice guy" category which most people seem to drive alittle to far out, making them immediatly a wuss. Personaly, Im not a wuss... I even practice Karate 2 times aweek for 10 years of my life, plus im a neat fighter, or so im told, and yes I have very strong feeling, yes I do not like to be to straight with my sexuality since I find it embarrassing, but if I can make it fit into a situation...it'll do. Yes, Im a . Also Directly calling a what we like to call "nice guy" AKA someone like me A coward because he is shy is SIMPLY stupid, all men ain't born confident, and we can't change it. Though some might have the "blessing" it just makes it all the more difficult for us others.
Also it's like INSTANTLY when you're a nice guy you become the opposite of a bad boy, meaning everything negative. I say this is a bold explaination and so untrue... Be yourself and don't act like another, but if you want a girl moster up
What I never got was the women who went for the fat losers with no money and no looks. America abounds with these women. They're not women I want, but they're all over the place.
How true your statements are,Evan...
As a former "nice guy",I spent my high school and early college years wondering what the problem was with me...A couple of adjustments would have made those years so much more memorable.
And what's also true is that by staying nice,and therefore OBVIOUSLY not like the other guys,you attract women that aren't exactly sane.I can say this from experience.In my less seasoned days,I'd occasionally run into a woman who would fall head over heels for me.But they were either used up by bad boys/victimized by men,or mentally unstable,or in one case,a sexually confused woman who was dating me to repress her lesbian prefrences!
normal,stable women like confident men who don't repress their sexuality.Anything else and you're dealing with trouble!!!!!