My Secret Life as a Phone Sex Operator

She is me. She is a college student at Ohio State University studying psychology, and a journalism minor. Sierra loves females, 3-ways and very very freaky things that I do not. Sierra was created in 2003. She is a combination of the looks of a Playboy Centerfold, the humor of a comedienne, the love of a hopeless romantic, the intellect of a neurosurgeon, the conversation of a counselor and the sex drive of a nymphomaniac. Whenever you call, she'll be ready for whatever may come her way. She is me.

Do You Weigh 400 Pounds?

We've all heard the horror stories of the real physical traits of a phone sex operator. Is it true? Are they all very overweight, handicapped, or ugly?

I can say that a majority of the females working in the phone sex industry are not doing phone sex because men are chomping at the bit to date them. Are the operators excellent conversationalists, yes. Supermodels? No. The owner of the company I worked for was literally 400 pounds. She had the sweetest, sexiest voice I have ever heard in my life. She also has the largest figure I've ever seen in my life. Some of the other females who took calls also did their own photos, but this was very rare. Some females take the calls because they love the male attention, some do it for the money, and some do it because they feel like they have no other choice. This is a job, as such all types of females are attracted and recruited to the profession.

Do You Really Get Off?

I can only speak from personal experience. The only times I ever got off from having phone sex was not from having sex with a customer. A majority of females are able to multitask while talking so she may be painting her nails while talking to a customer, or washing a load of laundry. Some operators set aside quiet time for the client, but still aren't participating in the act. This is acting at its finest. After all, who really cares if she's climaxing, as long as the man thinks she is. He's not paying for her sex; he's paying for the illusion of her sexual prowess. As long as he's satisfied, and she's effectively convinced him that she's satisfied by carrying out her duty her job is well done.

What Type of Loser Calls and Pays for Phone sex?

All different types of men and women call.

Calls come from the business man on his lunch who just needs a quick fix because he's stressed from the day. The young Indian doctoral student who has it all together but somehow his social life is lacking also calls. The middle aged Canadian man who just needs to hear that American girl's accent reaches for the phone. The convicted pedophile that has fantasies and needs an outlet calls for her. The high dollar 30 something from Miami who likes to call when he's all coked up to have someone tell him what a good lover he is and that he shouldn't be lonely calls. The 50 something who dreams of impregnating a young woman wants to fulfill that fantasy with you. The anonymous man who wants you to play with bodily fluids or worse needs to talk. They say "It takes all kinds", this is true in phone sex. Some men want you to be their "girlfriend", and some just want you to lay there. Some customers want you to fight back, and some request incest. Anything goes as an operator. Your choice in a company decides whether or not you will have the choice to refuse certain calls. I did refuse certain calls that I objected to. I kept it pretty plain and simple.

How Did You Explain It to Your Friends and Family?

I am a very open and honest person, but this was difficult to explain to most people in my life. I pride myself on trying to be a "good girl", and phone sex didn't fit that description quite accurately. My mother knew only because she found my book of call logs one day in my car. Explaining to her that I was doing a brief stint in phone sex was better than her making assumptions of something way worse. Very few friends knew, and any boyfriend at the time would of course know. That request call at 3 a.m would be difficult to explain away. It was simply a part time occupation for the time. It helped me to pay a few bills, and buy myself some nice things without having to leave the privacy of my own home.

Would You Do It Again?

As Phone sex operators, we were exposed to the underbelly of sexual desires, and it wasn't pretty. It's really hard to maintain a healthy outlook on sex while doing the job. I never became angry or jaded towards men because I felt like I was simply a vessel for their fulfillment through words, and felt no attachment to the men. Being detached I never took anything personal or judged the men for what they said, or how they felt. I was simply providing them with a service per their request. It's not very surprising that the average PSO only lasts a few months. Some women can't help but be affected by it after a period of time psychologically, and personally. Working this industry is hard, not just anyone can do it. You need a very thick skin, and a strong sense of self. I learned a great deal about men during my time as a PSO so I believe I would do it again, if only for the experience.