Myspace Divorce

Kaya Cassan
If you are in a marriage, relationship or anything similar, please do not get a myspace page. If you are a myspace addict such as myself just don't let the love of your life know you have a page. It will only end in divorce. But, if you are going to have a page keep it clean and PG 13. I and fellow colleagues and friends have all had bad and almost comical myspace melodramas. The stories are endless and so mindless that one can not fathom the fact that people have really gotten divorces behind it. People have ended marriages due to a little myspace research.

Myspace is a social network in all honesty but it is also a formula for break ups and divorces. Having a myspace page is like having a reality TV show with your spouse or significant other.

There are certain rules you must live by:

1. Do not leave provocative messages on other people's pages. I say this because your significant other especially if it is a woman or an insecure man is going to check your page and will check the pages of all your friends especially the top ten ones.

2. Do not let people post provocative messages on your page. This will only end in an argument and may lead your loved one to contact the person who sent you a message and then it all gets ugly.

3. If you are a cheater please for the sake of the world don't even have a page you will only accelerate the process of you getting caught.

4. If your spouse does not know you are bi or homosexual you may not want to put that on your page.

5. If you have never told your significant other what your salary is or your real name you may not want to put that on your page.

For example, I have a friend who had no idea her husband had a myspace page until one day she happened to be at an old college friend's house. Mind you, they all went to college together and the friend in fact was the woman's husband's myspace buddy. Her husband's page was filled with provocative comments and all his top friends were women in bikinis and lastly he had "single" down as his status. Even if he wasn't doing anything wrong with these women, it was the principle and another case of a myspace divorce. Myspace is great for singles and business people but will only get committed people in trouble.

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  • Do not leave provocative messages on other people's pages.
  • Do not let other people leave provocative messages on your page.
  • You may not want to put things you have never told your spouse on myspace.
People have ended marriages due to a little myspace research.

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  • Judy E. Harrell6/30/2011

    Wow! Jaun I agree with you wholeheartedly! Praise the Lord for your courage to tell the truth! Although there is much temptation even for the Christian, any social media can be used to glorify Christ!! It's all about being controlled by the Spirit of Christ and walking with Him daily...moment by moment!

  • Juan8/27/2009

    Its all about characteristics of persons foundation. If your marriage isnt strong yes it is very easy to meet a person you had a crush on and it is easy to send that email and all of a sudden get a reply with the persons cell #. Many folks use my space as a way to close past chapters in their lives. Back to having a good foundation starts by Believing in Jesus Christ. Yes myspace can easily be seen as bad because as sinners bad is the first thing many of us look for. Doesnt matter how many goods you have in life its the one bad thing that ruins everything. If two people have thier hearts and foundation with Jesus Christ the converstaions stay clean. But myspace is a place for people to communicate. words are expressed in detail and make sense sometimes because of spell check. Its a wounderland that everyone uses to express them selves and to network. God Bless everyone that reads this page! GET ADDICTED TO JESUS CHRIST NOW before it is to late!

  • Confidential5/2/2008

    This is very true, I lost my huband and found that he had been "talking" with an ex-girlfriend whom he had been cheating on me for almost 10 years, and reuited by Myspace.

  • Goldie3/30/2008

    Great article and very true!!! I was telling that to a guy I know and he laughed at me and said I was being childish! Thank You for this article.

  • Charlene Collins9/5/2007

    I can see where it would cause a problem if people were trying to hook up or advertise they are available when they aren't. I think some folks like the fantasy life they can create on myspace. Great article!

  • Terry Mancour7/10/2007

    Myspace will only end your relationship if it is already weak and puny.

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