Let's say you go to the grocery store and pick between apples and oranges. You decide that oranges are what you will buy this week. You don't have any emotional attachment to the choice you just made so this one choice isn't going to affect your focus. So now let's look at a situation that, when you make a judgment, can cause your end result to take a detour.
You go to the same grocery store where you selected your oranges. As you shop you can see that down one of the aisles is a couple arguing with one another. You begin to eavesdrop and hear that she is angry with her spouse because he only picks out the things he wants to eat without thinking of her.
You immediately make a judgment as to what a jerk the guy must be without knowing either person and without really knowing the whole picture. This is where your judgment of something is going to change your own attraction from the LOA.
You now have gotten upset, thinking about how this guy has treated her badly and you begin to wonder what it must feel like to be her. Or maybe you have had a similar situation happen to you.
Your judgment of a situation made you upset (emotional response) and triggered you to feel negative emotions that in turn began to attract more of the same back to you. Think about how many times a day this may happen to you. Maybe at work or standing in line, somewhere you observe people, and you look around and decide to make judgment. I don't like her dress. I think she looks rude. She isn't talking very nice on the phone. I wonder if she is cheating on her boyfriend.
All these thoughts can cause your own mind to go to places that cause some kind of negative emotional focus. Being judgmental, even when you don't have some kind of emotional connection, can cause you to think that you are much better than someone. Or you may degrade them in your mind to make you look or feel better. This is the worst kind of judgment because it only hurts you in the long run. You are attracting back to you whatever you think, and you speed up this process by what you feel.
By being non judgmental about your surroundings, you will be doing yourself a favor. You may not like what others look like or do but it is not you who should make the judgment. Let others be who they are and respect the fact that they are creating their own reality. Don't make your reality a part of what they do or say because of what you think about them.
Focus on what you want in your own life and focus on what you are creating. You don't need to be worried about what others are creating. If someone asks for your opinion or advice give it to them without judgment. You will take the Law of Attraction to a new level in your own life when you leave judgment of all things and people behind.
Published by Beth and Lee McCain
Beth and Lee McCain are two of the most prolific authors on the subject of the Law of Attraction, also known as The Secret. Please visit: http://www.bethandleemccain.com for more Law of Attraction informat... View profile
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