Obese Teenage Girl's Story

Carol Roach
Previously published in Examiner

The following is a testimonial of an obese woman in Montreal. The pandemic medical condition is sweeping across North America as well as Montreal. New Research shows that young children who are obese will are at risk for diabetes and other medical conditions associated with obesity.

Obese Montrealers can seek help through dieticians, such programs as weight watchers and obesity clinics.

Obesity Therapists in Montréal

Weight Watchers in Montreal

Overeaters Anonymous in Montreal

Diary of a Fat Woman

When I was young the pupils at school laughed at me because of my weight. They called me names and shunned me. Most of them did not want to play with me and so from a very young age I knew the pain of rejection. All I wanted was to have friends. I would have done just about anything to be a popular girl. Instead, I learned to fit in where I could. I associated myself with other girls who were ostracized or considered weird in some way just like me.

Instead of having many friends, I had my dogs and I had my food. A chocolate bar or a piece of cake temporarily eased my pain and made me feel better.

When I was in high school, I longed to have a boyfriend. The slim girls never seemed to have a problem getting one. The fat girls like me lived vicariously, listening to their adventures with their boyfriends and dreaming about what it would be like to have a boyfriend of our own.

Most of us resorted to pretending we had a boyfriend who did not go to our school. I went as far as carrying a picture of a boy in my school bag. The skinny girls were not stupid. They knew it was just stories we made up to feel wanted and loved just like everyone else.

Even at home, the girls on the block had boyfriends and I was the only one without. Once or twice one of the guys in our gang would say to me, "you have a pretty face, too bad you are so big." Those words cut me like a knife, the same way they did when I was a young child.


When the popular girls were out on a Saturday night with their boyfriends, I sat home with my pretty face and I watched TV; but who could watch TV without eating right?


Published by Carol Roach

Carol Roach holds a masters in counselling psychology. She worked as a therapist at the Douglas Hospital in Montreal before becoming a professional writer.Carol is the author of the book Picking Up The Piece...  View profile

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  • Gayle Crabtree10/30/2011

    You put things so well about girls who are heavy. There's nothing the rest of us can do but agree when we recognize the truth. Thank you, Carol.

  • Teila Tankersley10/30/2011

    Eye opening great job on these

  • Han Van Meegerin10/27/2011

    You did a great job of sharing your story.

  • Sandy James10/25/2011

    Unfortunately, this woman's dilemma is not uncommon and happens all the time. It's very sad.

  • Nancy P. Goodman, in Tennessee10/24/2011

    thanks for sharing, Carol!

  • Sivaramakrishnan Ananthanarayanan10/24/2011

    Though written with a melancholy streak, but has a touch of humor too, Carol. We are human after all, get carried away by looks and physical appearances. It hurts while young but one grows out of it - siva

  • Dina Montgomery10/24/2011

    Great work... :o)

  • Laura Cone10/24/2011

    nice job

  • Harriet Steinberg10/23/2011

    My daughter who is older now is overweight. she has diabetes and sleep apnea. I really worry about her. Can't seem to tske it off.

  • Carol Roach10/23/2011

    John that was a great answer

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