I was inside of my house working on a project that I was going to have submitted for a company that I work for, when I heard my husband, Brent Florence come inside of the house and shut the screen door behind him.
It was only moments later that I heard someone outside screaming. I felt a chill run down my back and I heard my husband running for the door. The screen door slammed and then a man that I had never saw before, came running into the house as I was running to the door. The man and I nearly knocked each other down. The man asked me if I was the mother to the little boy. I replied by asking what boy he was talking about. He then asked me again, only this time he revised his question by asking if I was the mother to the little boy who got ran over.
I darted passed the man and into my yard. I found my husband knelt down beside something that I really couldn't make out what it was. My husband, Brent Florence, was crying and screaming at the same time. I then seen something red pouring down our driveway and into the street. I walked up to him and then I realized that it was blood that was covering our driveway and that it was our son that was laying there in a fetal position.
I hit my knees and started praying. I felt like my heart was going to explode. My mind went blank and I kept wondering if this was real.
I heard someone on the phone with 911. The guy that was on the phone asked my husband if he was breathing. My husband replied by saying that his pulse was getting weak. I couldn't breath, I couldn't talk, all I could do was scream.
The ambulance arrived a few minutes after along with the Oklahoma City Police Department. The ambulance took our son to the hospital but would not allow us to ride with them. I had my one year old daughter at the time and so I told my husband to go to the hospital. My husband followed them in our car, while I waited for my mother in law to arrive.
The police officer began to question me and get information from me about our son, Gaje Florence. I was waiting for almost 40 minutes before my mother in law came to get me and our youngest daughter.
I looked over at the lady who ran over our son and she was sitting on a bench in front of our neighbors house. I couldn't believe what she had done. I didn't ask her any question and didn't even talk to her. I was more worried about the well being of my son.
I looked back and seen that our driveway was covered in blood and the truck that ran over him, was parked in the street.
When my mother in law arrived we hurried to get into her van. I remember the police officer saying that the lady who ran over him, was going to jail. I seen the police officer put her in hand cuffs and walk her to his patrol car.
My husband called me from the hospital, but I couldn't make out what he was saying through all of the tears that he was crying.
I arrived at the hospital and was quickly rushed into a room with my mother-in-law, father-in-law, and our oldest son, Brie. I saw my husband walking down the hall toward us. He was soaked in blood and his face was stained from the tears that he was crying.
A man was walking behind him with his arms crossed. I could verily make out his name tag. I concentrated harder and could make out the word 'councilor.' There was very few reasons as too why a councilor would want to be in that room with us, and I was waiting and praying for a miracle.
My husband walked into the room and told me the words that I wish I would have never heard. He told me that our son had died. I screamed so loud and I couldn't breath. My mind went blank and I started thinking back to what had happened. I wanted to make this stop. I wanted our son.
I later found out that the women who ran over my son, Gaje Jefferey Florence, was driving under a suspended license and that he had a previous charge that was filed almost two years ago for a hit and run. Her name is Elisie Margiretta Murguia and she was charged with negligent homicide.
My son was playing in our driveway which is about 20 feet from our house, the day that he died. Murguia was turning around after our next door neighbor yelled at her to come back to their house. She backed into our driveway and didn't realize that she had even ran over our son, until our neighbor started yelling at her to stop the truck.
If you would have seen our yard the day before he died, you would have laughed at all the kids playing in front of our house. Our house was the neighborhood playground for the kids around our house. We always have kids playing in our yard. Our yard is no longer filled with the laughter of the neighbors kids or the pitter patter of little feet running through our house. Our yard is like a ghost town and the kids that once filled our yard, are no longer able to go outside for the fear of this happening to one of them.
Brent and I had five kids between us and we were always proud of the family that we had created. I still cry at night, and I can still hear the sound of his voice. I can't close my eyes without seeing the image of him laying on our driveway with my husband beside him. My son died from severe head trauma and not old age. I never imagined myself barring one of our children. I always thought that your children are suppose to bury you.
I don't think that I will ever get over this and I am not sure if I really want too. I don't really know how to cope with this and I start to cry every time that I think about that day.
Published by Rosa Hayes
Rosa is a full time student at OCCC with a major in political science. She is currently the author of many articles on parenting, life skills, family, and careers as well as many other things. View profile
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71 Comments
Post a CommentMy heart breaks for you.
I don't know how I missed this one, Rosa. I wasn't writing much for AC then, I guess. I'm sorry that I'm sending condolences now, several years later. My love to your family. We'd rather have them back here with us, but I know Gaje is loving your with all his little heart from heaven.
thanks for sharing your story with us. I can only imagine your pain and how you must be so strong to be able to live through such a nightmare.
No parent, no mother should have to endure the mental and physical pain that goes hand in hand with losing a child. In 2001 I lost my 5 day old twins, Bobby and Kara to sepsis brought on by GBS. This should not have happened and was pure negligence on the part of all doctor's involved my OG/GYN and the pediatrician who allowed my babies to leave the hospital.
I sobbed whenreading about what happened to Gaje. There are no words, just complete sorrow that you had to live this nightmare.
You are a courageous woman and your son's memory will continue to live on as you persue harsher punishments for those that commit vehicular manslaughter.
God Bless You
@Firoze, your comment made me cry but in a good way. I am glad that so many people have stood behind us. Thank you.
What a hauntingly tragic tale, simply and beautifully told. You have experienced a parent's worst nightmare, but you have survived. I know that's what you are feeling right now - that you're merely surviving; that your life, as you knew it, is over. Life goes on, however, trust me. I just read your interview that you believe in the spiritual; therefore believe this. Your son is now in a beautiful place, free of worries and tribulations. Tragic as the incident seems to you, your son was taken by God before he was old enough to accumulate any sins. Hence, his place at the side of the Lord is assured. Even now, he may be looking down at you; and he does not want you to mourn any longer. He wants you to be happy and, when the time comes, he will come for you and you will be together for eternity. God bless you.
Rosa, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
I am sorry for your loss. My son was 8 when a he died at the hands of a drunk driver driving on a suspended license. I remember the blood in the street to this day. I used to go to sleep every night convering my face with my hands so I would not see the images of his injured body and head.
I am sorry for your pain, because I can feel it still myself. But we must go on and in time, like everything we go through we find a place to put in our heart so that we can remember, but carry on for our family that still lives with us.
Time heals some of the pain some of the time - the pain just changes as time passes.
@Diana, Losing a child is the hardest thing that I have ever had to go through. You hear of it happening everyday but you never imagine it happening to you. Thank you for your comment and the only thing that keeps me hanging on is the thought of my other children. No one should ever have to go through this and thanks for sharing your granddaughters story. I am sure that she was such a great child.
My dear,my heart is hurting now ...for I know the pain you are feeling and have endured .I lost my little granddaughter in2004,she died of injuries ,caused by a doctors neglect.she lived only 6 months ,in that time suffering worse than anyone should ever hurt..she was blind ,she could not swallow or suck a bottle,we had to suction her nose and throat to keep her from aspirating on her fluid .she couldn't even cry,she had a g-tube for feeding ,and she had cerebral palsey from her injury at birth.all of this from the hands of someone not making the correct choice.the choice that was chosen cost us our little angel...I pray for you and your family and I do think you are doing the right thing by sharing ,it does seem to help.just savor the beautiful time you had with your little boy and remember he is still with you always!this helps me through when I think of little Abbigail. God Bless you and yours totally ! .....Diana