On Being a Woman: From the Female Perspective

Charlotte
"God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him" - unknown

I like being a woman. I think women are the stronger sex than men! This is not male bashing. I acknowledge men's strengths and their role in the society but there are just a lot of reasons why women are just the stronger sex!

In history, men were just privileged. Everything was in their favor thus enabling them a lot while women were deprived and have been stripped off having choices and the opportunities. But if women all this time were given the same privileges as men have, women would have surpassed all that men have done. All the inventors and great artist in history would have been women, and men would have been the second class citizens.

But even then, women were still strong and evident in a manner of perspective. Behind a man's success is a woman. Da Vinci had 'Mona Lisa' and Alexander the Great had his mother Olympias to secure his throne. Even Eve has shown she was stronger than Adam! Granting she was the one who first ate the fruit of knowledge, the first one who got tempted but Adam was just too dumb and weak to follow along!

In modern times with equal opportunity, I couldn't think of anything that a man does that a woman can't do. As a matter of fact, I think women can do a lot more and a lot better. While some would argue that there is just no argument since men and women are just created differently. A man's body is made with upper body strength for hard labor while a woman's body is made with lower body strength for child bearing. But the thing is a woman's body can be developed for hard labor while it's just not possible to develop a man's body for child bearing! Of course, you don't see a lot of women doing hard labor like construction, road jobs or heavy machineries! It's because most women just CHOOSE NOT to do it!

Also, studies show that women live longer than men. Very interestingly too, according to another study, married men live longer than a single men. Now I wonder why!

Woman was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved" - unknown

But personally really, I believe that men and women are EQUAL and created to complement each other. But women just have more advantages. While women enjoy the benefits of equal opportunity (or can sue someone for sexual discrimination), we also enjoy chivalry - having the door opened for us or having our luggage carried for us and being treated like a lady!

Published by Charlotte

Born and raised in the Philippines - true Filipino by heart, and now living at a military school in Alabama with my family! I am wife to Michael, mother to toddler Matthew Alexander and baby Mark Anthony. I...  View profile

  • While women enjoy the benefits of equal opportunity (or can sue someone for sexual discrimination),
  • we also enjoy chivalry - having the door opened for us or having our luggage carried for us
  • and being treated like a lady!

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  • Katelynn5/14/2008

    The Joys of Being a Woman


    I love being a woman for several reasons, but the main one is motherhood. I have two boys and a girl and I wouldn't trade this for anything. Also, because most men, even though they would probably deny it, look up to us and admire us. So much so that many men want to be a woman!
    Being a woman though is much more than just wearing women's clothing. Transvestites and transsexuals live in a dream world where their reality of being a woman is a delusion. They want the nice feel of satin and charmeuse against their bodies without really understanding what it means to be a woman.
    First, a woman is born into disadvantage as this is a man's world. The best example I can give of this is when I was in high school. The boys who were sexually active were looked upon as being manly or having it together! If a woman was sexually active, which I was, she is looked upon as a whore.
    Now, I am the shop supervisor of an electronics firm, and I get this attitud

  • Aktiv8 F811/2/2007

    Good read! I love how you mentioned that men live longer when married - so true!

  • A.M. Morgan11/1/2007

    Great article. What a great way to end the article by saying how men and women compliment each other. Welcome to AC.

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