On Your Knees Slave

As a submissive for over 25 years in real life, I think that I have a good idea on how to spot a wannabe player and a real lifer when online. Now sometimes I am fooled by actions, but sooner or later, the truth plays its way into a scene or playtime and the pretender is revealed.

Its not that hard really, if you are a real life Dom or sub to know when someone is just playing with the information, or should I say disinformation they have read online, or that they have actually lived the life.

Let us stop for a moment and just point out some things, from real life of course.

Unlike the thoughts of many folks online, D/s is not all about sex. The sex can be good, but that is not the sole core of the lifestyle.

Let me speak from a submissive point of view.

When I am with a good Dom, and feel safe, all I want to do is make that person happy. That could be anything from just sitting with them and talking to obviously sex or a scene.

I try to be respectful to all that present themselves as Dom but do not hesitate to speak up if I believe they have done something out of the ordinary or wrong. Of course I will not do this in public, but in private. How they react to my speaking up will dictate whether or not they retain my respect. After all, respect is an earned honor, not a given one.

As a submissive I also have needs. I need to feel protected at all times. I need to feel that I am look upon as a precious soul and not an object to be locked away. Many subs are content with never straying from their Dom's side, while others enjoy the feeling of having complete freedom and may spend hours sharing their experiences with their Doms.

Now, you've notice that I have not used the term Master or slave. That is a totally different animal than Doms and subs. that is another thing that will trip up an online wannabe.

I know that even after I've repeatedly told someone I am a submissive and not a slave, and they continually refer to me as a piece of property or as a slave, that they have no clue as to what the real lifestyle is all about.

A slave gives up everything and puts their entire well being in the hands of their Masters. Sometimes that entails when to eat, when to sleep, how to dress and so on. As a submissive, I am not willing to give up all my power and control. So please don't get the two confused. I have boundaries and will enforce them.

These are just some thoughts I wanted to share. I'm opened to any question you might have and will talk with anyone through messages or in chat as long as you remember to be respectful.

That is the biggest thing for me, be respectful. In all ways in all things at all times.