Online Dating Tips for Men: Five Easy Tips

Michael Martin
Guys, before you venture through the online dating world, here's five easy online dating tips for men. Online dating is like anything else in life, it's a learning experience and in part, a game. Knowing some of these tips will help you navigate through the process.

Online Dating Tips for Men # 1

Photo, photo, photo. What do they say about real estate? Location, location, location. The same principles apply. The better photos you have, the better the chances of successfully contacting members. If you've got them, the nice lady visiting your profile can quickly get a semi-quality glimpse of what you look like. One key photo to have is a clear face shot. A good smile also greatly helps. Add other photos as you feel comfortable. If you don't feel comfortable about posting a photo, consider mentioning in your profile a photo is available through email. However, not posting a photo will place you at a disadvantage because there's tremendous competition out there.

Online Dating Tips for Men # 2

Don't waste your time with profiles that have not logged in for over three to four weeks. The person behind that profile has either lost interest in the process or has found a match but hasn't turned off her profile yet. Even if you wrote this person an email, the likelihood of your well-thought out, clever message you took the time to write probably won't even get read, let alone answered. Go onto the next profile.

Online Dating Tips for Men # 3

Online dating tips for men include the utilization of the hot list. This cuts to the chase. If you've scoped out a profile that peaks your interest, experiment by adding it to your hot list. If you placed a profile on your personal hot list, the nice lady who you just hot-listed will be notified that she has just landed on your magical list. If you're a lucky guy that happens to land on one of these lists, the ball is in your court to decide if you want to reciprocate and initiate contact.

Online Dating Tips for Men # 4

Don't ask for the phone number in the initial email, it's a rookie mistake. Your first email should be an introduction about yourself or what interested you about that person's profile. Try developing a rapport first. When the timing feels right, then go ahead and ask for the digits.

Online Dating Tips for Men # 5

Don't stick to one dating site for more than three to four months. When you initially join a dating site, you may notice you are the new kid on the block. This is a good thing because you may find yourself the beneficiary of some steady traffic through your profile. As time goes on, the hits on your profile may tend to wane. Sticking with a dating site for too long tends to get stale. Try changing up dating sites. This keeps things fresh and keeps your profile in the forefront. You can always go back to that particular site later on.

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