Path to Becoming a Pagan Priestess

A Guide from Self-Initiation to Dedicated Priestess

Linda StCyr
On a summer night, when the moon was full, I started my walk along the path to becoming a Pagan Priestess. The first step on the path was a self-initiation ritual where I would dedicate my body, mind and soul to the God and the Goddess. Not everyone who follows a Pagan or Wiccan path will go through a self-initiation process. Some will join a coven in which they will study under a high ranking witch or warlock. Often these high ranking members of a coven are considered the High Priest and High Priestess. I chose a solitary path and thus my rituals, spell casting and education into the world of Paganism done alone.

Self-Initiation Ritual

My ritual was based on guidelines set forth by witches who came before me. It involved setting up an altar properly, casting a circle, candles with color associations, herbal offerings to the God and Goddess, learning to call to the four corners and elements (Earth, Air, Fire and Water) and other items added for my solitary practice. I did my ritual skyclad (nude) although it is not necessary. I cannot describe the feelings associated with the self-initiation onto the path of paganism except to say that it was very spiritual, uplifting and humbling. I would compare it as akin to being baptized by a Christian faith.

Books on the subject of witchcraft, Wicca and Paganism will give you guidelines to performing a self-initiation ritual. It should be remembered that these are guidelines and not steps that are necessary. Raymond Buckland's book The Complete Book of Witchcraft covers Rites of Passage, Circles, Self-Dedication and Coven Initiation in chapter 4 which is useful for anyone new to witchcraft, Wicca and Paganism.

Walking the Path

Learning is the next step along the path. After dedicating myself to the God and Goddess, I devoted myself to learning different things. I read books on Crystal Magick, Tarot Cards along with Tarot Spells, Gypsy Magic, Earth Magic and everything in between. A favorite was American Folklore by Silver RavenWolf because it delved into a history and culture of people I felt connected to. I began my first Book of Shadows and started writing spell recipes. It should be remembered that anyone who walks the path of witchcraft will follow a different path than any other with many twists, turns and experiences.

A few books that can help as a guide to walking the path for a solitary pagan practioner are Hedge Witch: A Guide to Solitary Witchcraft by Rae Beth, A Witch Alone: Thirteen Moons to Master Natural Magic by Marian Green and Solitary Witch: The Ultimate Book of Shadows for the New Generation by Silver RavenWolf.

Becoming a Pagan Priestess

The walk along the path to becoming a Pagan Priestess is a long one. It takes love, open mindedness, caring, learning and wisdom to achieve. Many women who dedicate themselves to the path of becoming a Pagan Priestess do not achieve the title and ranking until they have passed maidenhood, motherhood and entered into the world of the crone. Some however may achieve the title of Priestess at an earlier age due to natural circumstances, devotion and choice.

After choices and circumstances dictated I would no longer bear children, I performed another ritual dedicating and devoting my life to the God and the Goddess. This ceremony was a yearly one for me done on the day my self-initiation ritual was first done. After 13 years of following the path, I was raised to the ranking of Priestess. I cannot explain how I knew this but there was change that overcame me during the ceremony. I understood the cycle of life, the balance of nature and did not fear. I knew what I was and that the path never ends.

Blessed Be!

Published by Linda StCyr

Linda St.Cyr has been a featured contributor for Associated Content from Yahoo!, she is the author of several short stories including the story "Leaving" published in the anthology collection, Elements of Ti...  View profile

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  • Willow10/1/2011

    Unfortunatly you can not become a priestess from reading a few books and absorbing knowlege from various other resources, and deciding that this will be the next step on your journey through life......... A Wiccan Priestess title can only be obtained though years of study of the craft and completing all initiation degees.

  • Sonya Hill7/5/2011

    A solitaire is not a Pagan Highpriestess. To hint that it is, is insulting to our religion and our spiritual path. To become a Highpriestess means you have had training, and dedication to a community, teachers, elders, and a particular "way of doing things" you are passing down traditions.

    How can you do that if you self iniate yourself? Being a Highpriestess also means serving...not "being the center of attention" it is hard work, and takes ALOT of money and time...how come you haven't mentioned any of that here? Self-iniation rites are all fine and dandy...but a highpriestess is a servant of the gods for the people, how are you serving the people with your magic if it is ALL FOR YOU? Service, is not convenient, but it is the truth path of a priestess, and to act as if "just anybody" can don the hat is insulting to our path...you should be ashamed!

  • Anne Baxter2/13/2010

    Fascinating. Thanks!

  • Cassandra Page12/2/2009

    Well that explains a lot. Witch!

  • K K Thornton10/7/2009

    Fascinating article, and I would think an excellent guide for those wanting to follow in your chosen path. Well written, too. :)

  • Cassandra James10/7/2009

    Oh this is really nice, Linda. Exceptional job on this, it has a really nice personal tone to it you don't find on a lot of articles. Very cool too:-)

  • Donna Thacker10/7/2009

    I have read many of the books you mentioned, a couple I have not. My journey began with Scott Cunninghams's Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner. I have several of his books and really enjoy them. Blessed be!

  • padre art10/5/2009

    Very fine Linda, the balance of the god and goddess is so often overlooked.

  • Loki Morgan10/3/2009

    excellent! You should check out Sheila-na-gig (sp?) figures. I think you'd find them cool. (=

  • Jan Corn10/3/2009

    I know little about this topic but I found your account to be very well-written and engaging.

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