Path to Freedom - Algorithm of Finding the Root Cause of Life Problems

Albert  Adler
There are certain rules that can be used to find the root cause of the problems and diseases in our life. They are not complicated. All you need to have is a strong desire to find them and become aware of the situations in your everyday life. That means to be here and now every moment of time. So this is the algorithm.

1.Negative event happens in your life and creates all kinds of problems for you.

2.Ask yourself the following questions: "What was before that experience?" "What events you had the day before, two days before or a few days before that day." "What did you think about?" "What did you feel?" "What did you see?"

Usually the reason lays in the nearest past. However, sometimes the reason can be found in an event that took place a few month or even years ago. Everyone can think and find that root cause event. If you are persistent in your search the answer will come to you.

Here is an interesting example. One lady had her house robbed. She couldn't understand why it happened. She was not greedy or anything that could attract such situation. I asked here if she had any negative event two or three days before. First she could not recall anything. Later she told me that she had a bitter argument with her best friend. She let herself to immerse into negative emotions and continue to think negative thoughts. It is that event as well as her reaction attracted the following unfortunate events. Like attracts like.

If something going on with your close friend or relative ask yourself these questions: "What role do I play in this situation?" "What did I think?" "What did I feel?" "What did I say?"

Very often our thoughts trigger the negative situation in life of our close friends and relatives. Are you familiar with the situation when you think something and someone next to you starts talking about it? This is how we exchange our thoughts.

Thought exchange is always going on even when we don't notice it. Take a note of it and be always careful what you think. Be aware of your thoughts. That's the way to deal with the life problems. Once you become aware of your thoughts you will be able to heal you life and life of others. If we are able to trigger a problem in our life and in lives of our friends and relatives then we certainly can stop them. The only thing left is to learn to become aware of our thoughts.

Now, did you notice any kind of thought flush through you mind thinking that the situation in your life is someone's else fault? "That's why it happened with me! It's his or her fault. I need to get rid of him/her." This is a trap. You are blaming others again. I'm not talking about finding the one who is guilty in your situation. I'm talking about how to make yourself stronger and become less susceptible to negative thoughts of other people.

Harmonious thoughts about ourselves and others is the best protection from negative influence of thoughts of others. It is also a best healing mechanism.

Whenever we have a negative thought about someone, whenever we feel envious, jealous or simply angry, we became capable of hurting others. It's not good or bad it just the way our universe works. Once we become aware of our thoughts and feelings we move into another dimension of reality. We start to see other people especially our children as individuals who have the rights to do what they need and want to do in any given moment of time.

3.If a situation or group of situations were triggered because of someone then try to recall what was going on in that moment. What was he or she saying? What were you saying?

4.Now try to relate what happen with what was said. Sometimes our unconscious beliefs use other people to show up in our life. What actually happens is that triggering event directly relates to our belief. This is very good opportunity to explore and find out what was the believe that got triggered and lead to a given situation.

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