Phone Sex with Your Prison Inmate

So you have your husband or boyfriend on the phone for your weekly (or nightly) rendezvous and you would like to spice things up a bit. Well, you have come to the right place. Phone sex with your prison inmate is fun, exciting and a good way for the two of you to bond, since there really is not another way to intimately bond outside of erotic love letters.

Break the ice, or the silence, to begin with. If you or your lover has never engaged in phone sex, then you may be somewhat intimidated by what is, essentially, a blank page on which to write. This can be especially intimidating if he cannot speak in front of others, which means that you will be the main narrator.

Set the scene by imagining where you would have your "sex" if it were in real life. It will most likely be at home, where you are, so begin by telling them that you wish that he were here with you. Now that you have made some small movement in "metaphorical" directions, you may jump right in. Tell them what you wish they were able to do right now, be it simply touching you or something sexual.

You are the main vocalist. While you have freedom to make sounds, gasps and moans, they do not. Even if they did, it probably would be better for their image around the other guys if they did not. They can speak, but you will have the main responsibility of being more sexual, squealing, laughing, moaning and saying his name. Keep your end up by having phone sex while you are naked or half-dressed, in bed and engaging in masturbation. At some point, you simply cannot fake phone sex, and it is more satisfying for both of you in the end.

Having phone sex helps him out more than you think. Many men gauge their lovemaking ability or sexual prowess by how much they are able to please their woman in the sack. There may be times when he wants to have phone sex, but you are not turned on and it is an inconvenience to you. At this point, remember that this is a vital emotional need of your man and that filling it will make him feel bonded to you and, more importantly, accepted by you. It is easy to psych yourself out when sitting in prison, especially if other prisoners are telling you about how, one by one, their families left them. In this instance, they may try to find reassurance in calling you and asking for some phone sex. Rejection at this point can be very harmful and wounding to them.

If either of you is able to fund it, schedule regular bouts of phone sex weekly or throughout the week. This level of intimacy may seem like it would not be fulfilling, but you will be surprised at how much power is wielded by two people in love.

Source:

http://www.dc.state.ks.us/