Plan a Socially-conscious Wedding Celebration

When I got married, I wanted the ceremony and celebration to reflect the values I and my now-husband share. Nowadays the average cost of a wedding is about $25,000. That's a bunch! It seems like there ought to be a way to spread some of that around to folks who can really use it. Thankfully, there are lots of ways to do just that and still have a joyous, beautiful, fun, and meaningful marriage celebration. Here some ideas you and your partner may want to consider:

-->Donate leftover food to a food rescue agency. There's sure to be one in your area. We worked with Potluck Food Rescue in Central Arkansas. Also, locally- or organically-grown food is a good idea.

-->Choose environmentally-responsible rings that use metals and gems that are recycled and/or conflict-free. If you prefer, choose an antique or heirloom ring that doesn't require additional mining.

-->Use recycled paper for your invitations, programs, thank you cards and the like. You can find beautiful recycled paper products at many locations, including office and wedding supply stores.

-->Donate the flowers to a nursing home or assisted living facility. The folks there will really appreciate your kindness. Organically- or locally-grown flowers are also a good choice.

-->Donate your dress after the big day. Are you really going to wear it again? Your daughter may not want to wear it either. (Do you want to wear your mom's?). Instead the resale of the dress can benefit a good cause.

-->Make a donation to your favorite charity in honor of your guests instead of (or in addition to) more traditional favors. If you don't have a favorite charity, scroll through the archives of So what can I do? to get some ideas.

-->Plan a socially-conscious wedding with help from the I Do Foundation. It's run by Swarthmore alums and has great ideas, including making charitable contributions through your registry. Also check out Organic Weddings and Green Weddings for more ways to make a difference on your big day.

-->Elope and donate a portion of the money you could have spent on a wedding to your favorite charitable cause.

Hopefully, you can incorporate one or more of these ideas into your celebration. (Share your own suggestions in the comments.) From the registry, to the honeymoon, make your celebration even more meaningful. Spread the love you share with your sweetheart, and let your commitment or wedding celebration be a vehicle for love and service.

"Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination." - Roy Goodman