Planning for a Visit from a Disabled Person

From time to time, people may be called upon to host a disabled person. This is often because of a family reunion, a funeral, a wedding or various other gatherings. They may be chosen as they know the person well or possibly because their home is most suitable. In some cases it may be an overnight stay.

Defining the Needs of People with Disabilities

Depending on the disability, a person may have specific needs when it comes to living arrangements. Meeting these requirements as far as possible can make the visit a pleasant one for all concerned. Here are some of the areas to consider:

• Does the person need a special bed?
• What type of mattress is required?
• Will protective sheets be necessary?
• Will a safety rail be needed?
• Does the person prefer to shower or bath?
• Do they need a bath seat or other equipment?
• Is the house wheelchair friendly?

It is possible to hire some equipment and the best thing to do is discuss the issues with the person concerned before making arrangements.

Food Requirements

In some cases, a person will have dietary requirements such as pureed or mashed food or a more general requirement such as low-fat or sugar-free foods. Ask the person or their caregiver what is needed. Here are some suggestions:

• What cutlery does the person use?
• What type of cup is most suitable?
• Does the person have any allergies?
• What type of foods are preferred?

Disabled Parking Permits

Most disabled people will have a disabled parking sticker or permit in their home town. Call local authorities to see if this will be accepted in the relevant area or make enquiries about getting a temporary permit. It can make life much easier to park close to a restaurant, mall or theatre. Here are some other factors to think about:

• Does the person use a wheelchair?
• Will the person be able to manage riding in a normal automobile?
• Allow extra travelling time as it takes time to help the disabled person in and out of vehicles and into wheelchairs.

Planning a Trip with a Disabled Person

When expecting a visit from a disabled person, make it a habit to check out disabled facilities. Note which malls and other public areas have the best restrooms and most accessible elevators for the disabled. All these places are required to provide these facilities but some are tucked away in obscure corners and are not as user friendly as others.

Flying with a Disabled Person

Airports, especially international terminals, can stretch for long distances. It is often easier for people with mobility or visual problems to ask for wheelchair assistance. Some airlines require prior notification for this so make sure to ask when booking. It is also worth asking for a seat with extra legroom. People with mobility problems are normally boarded first and taken off last so be prepared for a long wait.

Generally, disabled people would prefer to have a frank discussion about their limitations and needs than be left embarrassed and struggling with inadequate facilities. Asking about their needs is an expression of concern and thoughtfulness. With open communication and planning, hosting a person with disabilities can be a positive, uplifting experience.