Preparing Your Child for a Surgical Procedure

Preparing your child for a surgical procedure is not an easy task. Not only is the prospect of a hospital stay frightening for the child, they can also pick up on your fear and worries. As a parent, you need to remain as calm and normal as possible.

Begin talking about the procedure as soon as you know about it. That way, when the actual date arrives, the child and you will be more accustomed to the idea.

Prepare yourself first for the procedure by knowing what to expect. Talk to the doctor alone and ask any questions you need answer. Express any fears you have with the doctor and listen carefully to him. Once you are mentally prepared for your child's procedure, you will be better able to help your child prepare for it.

Sit down with the child and explain what the procedure is. Try to answer any questions the child may have as honestly as possible. Be as precise as the child can understand. You do not have to be graphic.

If the child seems frighten, address their fears. Explain that the doctors and nurses will take good care of them. Let them know that you will be there waiting for them when they wake up. Try your best to remain calm and upbeat when discussing the procedure. Talk about how soon they will be home and discuss when they will be able to return to school.

Let your child pack an overnight bag to take with them. Being able to wear their own pajamas and slippers will help them rest easier. Also, be sure to include a special stuffed animal or maybe a special blanket or pillow. It's also good to include a couple of their favorite toys for them to play with. The more of their own things they have around them, the more familiar it will seem.

When the day arrives, don't frighten your child by making it seem as if he or she is going on a long trip. If the siblings are not coming along to the hospital, then instruct them to just tell him they will see him tonight or tomorrow. Make it seem more like a normal trip to a doctor than an overnight stay.

Remember, as the parent, it is up to you to keep the procedure as easy as possible. If you can remain calm and normal acting, your child will be at home, resting, in no time at all. Your child's surgery may be frightening to you, but your child doesn't have to be frightened.