An 'acknowledged father' is the biological father of a child born and whom paternity has been established. This can be done by either admission or agreement between the parents. Obviously, an acknowledged father must pay child support if they do not have custody.
Now for the 'presumed father'. If any of the following situations occur then a man is presumed to be the father of a child in the eyes of the court.
One, the man was married to the mother when the child was conceived or born.
Two, a man attempted to marry the mother, whether the marriage was legal or not does not matter, if the child was conceived or born during this time he is the presumed father.
Three, the man married the mother after the conception or birth and has his name on the birth certificate.
Or four, a man had welcomed a child into his relationship and home and chose to call the child his own.
Now the fact is this, any father acknowledged or presumed can not be disproved in a court of law and is considered 'conclusive'. Even in the case of negative blood tests and proven paternity for another man.
A man can be "conclusively presumed" to be the father of any child if he is both married to and living with the mother. The only qualification is that he is not sterile or impotent. So, this means that if a wife cheats on her husband and a baby is born during the time of the marriage the husband is legally the father.
Here's the kicker, if a blood test proves that you are not the father, whether the real father is made known by proof or not, then the presumed father must still pay child support. Also, if the biological father is made known to the court he will not be obligated to pay child support but the custody and visitation will be shared only between the biological parents involved.
By law, a presumed father must pay child support.
"Under the Child Support Enforcement Act of 1984, it is against the law for any father, presumed or assumed, to not pay court ordered child support to the custodial guardian, regardless of joint custody. Federal laws permit the interception of tax refunds to enforce child support orders, and other methods of enforcement include wage attachments, seizure of property, suspension of a business license, and in California, driver's license revocation. In the event that none of these attempts are entirely successful, the court of law that issued the child support order can hold the father in contempt and, in the absence of a reasonable explanation for the delinquency, impose a jail term." (Trusted Internet Resource quoting the law as it stands)
So, my question to you, do you believe that this is a fair law to be held so high in our courts? Here is the argument after interviewing a friend of mine that has actually had this happen to him.
"I wasn't married but I had been seeing this girl. At the time I owned my business and had really good income. She admitted to me that she was having an affair and we broke up. She moved in with the guy she was cheating on me with and over a year later I received a child support bill for her child. When I contacted her and asked what was up with this action against me she said that she was no longer with the other guy and she knew I could 'afford' to take care of her. She said that she put my name on the birth certificate and the baby was a few months old."
I had to ask if he exhausted all efforts to prove that he was not the father in this case and here's how he answered.
"Yes, in fact the blood test proved I wasn't but by the time all this happened the baby was almost a year old and had my name all that time. The judge said that is something he couldn't change and I was the better choice for the child because I had such a good job and so forth. I was then declared to be the presumed father. I have since removed myself from the situation because the biological that had taken the paternity test and was matched as the dad decided to get visitation and I didn't want to confuse the kid, so needless to say I haven't seen her since she was a baby."
If you are wondering how this has impacted his life, here are the results. He has gone bankrupt and lost his business because of high support he was paying. Because support is based upon your income his was set to a very high but manageable amount... but during a series of slow months he got behind. The mother issued a warrant out and the D.A. took his drivers license. "Well, you can not work if you can't get there. I had to give up my business."
For the other side to this discussion I thought it best to get a few random people to stop and answer a few questions. I find that I get more honest opinions from various individuals than I would from a person that is justifying their own actions.
"I guess it would really depend on the biological father and whether or not he was fit. The law, I am guessing is for the best interest of the children, so if the father is a criminal or something then I could see a mom placing a gentler and more financially set man in the role to take care of the kids." (A mother of 3)
"Well, I guess it depends on the women involved. You gotta get by the best you can right? If the guy has a good job then why not, he can afford it. If I got pregnant I know which ones out of all the guys I have dated that would be good dads and which ones wouldn't. It's all about choice... I think it's actually quite cool that a mother has the right to choose who the father is it allows them to make the right decision. Don't you ever wish you could cover a mistake with a good conclusion? I do, so I could see it in some situations, yeah. " (A 25 year old woman who is not yet a mother)
So, how about you? Where do your choices take you as a woman? How about as a man, should you be worried and will you think twice about sleeping with your girlfriend? Do you think that this is good law or one that should be amended? Obviously this debate raises a lot of questions... doesn't it?
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26 Comments
Post a CommentNow what do you say to man who knows from the beginning the child is not his? He loves the mother and wants to be the father, he puts the name on the birth certificate, then as time goes on 2 years later, they break up, and not he wants out... he is done with her and the baby- should he have to pay support? This Law is a double edge sword.. In the question above, no fraud, duress, or even mistaken fact.. Should a man be held accountable ( like a business contract if he chooses the responsibility)?
Aroundtheblock
This law is such B*llS*it!! The court should go after the biological father.
The system is really twisted and corrupt... and you nasty evil females who call your self woman, how dare u, you will pay God don't like ugly! Every dog has it's day!!!
Well how about this. My husband has raised his daughter for 4 yrs. The month after her 4th birthday her grandmother filed suit for DNA (he has completed an acknoledgement of paternity). It was granted even though the law stated that a DNA can not be done after the childs 4th birthday. The grandmother took the cousin to his daughter to have the dna done. It was completed and she (the cousin) is not his child. The courts have sense taken his possesion rights away and left him to pay child support. They have taken a good father away from a child because a grandmother (drug attack) doesn't want to allow a father to care for the child. He has been in her life sense before birth. The mother acknoledges him as father and still the courts in Eastland County, TX took a father away from a child and a child away from a father that wants the child.
I have a child out side of our marrage. Her biological father wants nothing to do with her. Why would a court take the only father a child knows
my boyfriend is going through something similar with his estranged ex. He was led to believe that he was the father of their children and when they seperated she tells him she cheated on him with someone else because he wasent giving her a baby fast enough. Now he has had a paternity test on one of his daughters which came back as him not being her father and is seeking a order for the one whom she claims belongs to someone else. Id really like to know how it is fair for a woman to be so evil and "loose" while married and a man who accepted these children should be screwed over by paying this evil wench money. This law needs to be changed Bigtime. Let the shmuck who slept with her pay! This law is bogus and seems that it would somehow be against constitutional rights.
I have gone through some pretty scary stuff in my life and I wish that I would have known about LDAs sooner. I recently used one and I was able to represent myself effectively and win my case. So, in short, if you cant afford a lawyer an LDA is a great way to go. Mine was helmecylegal@hotmail.com. But I dont know if she can work in all areas of law or all states so youd have to ask. I have heard that they are only legal in two states, so do some checking where you live. Just thought Id let you all know that there are better solutions out there than paying a fortune for a lawyer.
when he was born he knew the law and had a dna test done and when it came back negative he signed papers to ensure that he was not pressumed father. Now, we divorced due to his domestic abuse and infidelity ( sleeping with my nurse why I was in surgery) if I wouldn't have divorced him this would have never been and issue! From what I understand by the courts he is pressumed and had till before my son turned 2 years old to object and didnt' do it and I never lied to him and he had plenty of chances to clear his doubts and save his pocket, and he refused to do so. The way I see it he has not rights to his 1 biological child and doesn't pay or see that child and is refusing paternity for mine but is voluntarily taking care of his new GF's 5 kids and not his own. I gave him 6 years of my life and he swore to my son that he would be by his side...so the way I see it he needs to stand by his words! I think that is why this law is in place... for people like me who gave the man plenty of chan
initials, husband was there for the whole pregnancy and birth, when my son was 2 months I asked husband if he wanted a DNA test, he refused. I looked online and paid for a mail ordered test and swabbed baby and husband while they slept because I wanted to know and knew that he would want to know eventually. Test came back that husband is the father, so for fathers day I gave him the results as a gift. when my son was 10 months we get a letter of a Class Act lawsuit stating that there is possible fraud with the DNA company I used and that we should retest, He again refused. we divorced he didn't object to paternity at all during divorce my son was 2, he met his new girlfriend who was upsent that he was paying 800 a month in child support and told him to ask for a dna test now he is telling me to go take the test or he will never see my son. Mind you his oldest non biological child from 1st marriage does not have his name nor does he pay support for him because even though he was married
Ok,I'm in this situation so I will comment from my point of view. I was married 6 years to a man whom was previously married with 2 kids (1 biological) and was 10 years older(I was 17 he was 27). Long story short toward the end of the marriage we separated for 8 days due to his anger issues and controling behavior, during that time I had sex with an old friend (condom broke) and husband and I made up the 2 days later and had sex. I was completly honest with my husband at the time(now ex husband) I told him what happened and the possibilities and he said that either way it would be his child. During the pregnancy husband was aware that I keep the lines of communication open with the other guy so that if in case that was his child he didn't miss the whole pregnancy. it wasn't till the guy met a new GF that he told me to abort or place for adoption ( I refused so he left) husband knew all this and we remained together. son was born (still married) husband picked the name with his same ini