Proper Behavior in Strip Clubs

There are places that girls love to go to have fun and then there are places that guys love to go to so that they may have fun, and there is no place that ranks higher on a guy's list of fun places than the local strip club. But bad behavior at the strip club can give you a bad reputation and have many negative ramifications in the future, including girls who refuse to give you a private dance. Yes, believe it or not, you have to use your manners and good judgment, even in a strip club. Those girls work hard to get a decent paycheck and they deserve your respect and manners. For those of you who do not know how to properly behave in a strip club, I will give you a little inside info, because I have been there many times and my daughter used to be a stripper.

When you go to a strip club, I want you to realize what is happening. You are going in to be entertained by dancing girls who are usually nude, or at least topless. Think about what that means to them. Every night they go in and expose themselves to men they don't even know. They dance for them, they entertain them, they give them lap dances. Think about what kind of mental stability and self confidence is needed to do that and respect it. Then ask yourself why they do it. They don't give a rat's butt about your happiness. They are there to make money. So help them! They give you hours of adult entertainment, the very least you can do is tip them. Even if it is only a few bucks. They deserve that at least.

My daughter worked for a strip club for some time (thankfully she was only topless and did not work at a club that I liked to go to) and this makes any parent worried about what can happen to them. One day she comes home and tells me that a "weird, old man" climbed on to the stage and tried to kiss her! Naturally I was very upset. People, listen to me. Strip clubs are meant to entertain people and sell beer. Climbing onto the stage can be very frightening to the girls and it is against the rules (usually). Trying to kiss them or even reaching out to touch them is just inappropriate. While some clubs or girls will allow you to touch them, you should keep your hands, and lips, to yourself. It is just proper behavior in a strip club and it shows the respect these girls deserve.

Nothing irritates a father more than a bunch of horny guys at a strip club trying to hook up with his daughter. It is more common than you might think. Guys who go to strip clubs regularly sometimes become infatuated with their favorite girl or maybe the constant nudity deludes them into thinking they actually have a chance to hook up with a stripper. Let me put my foot down here. It is a very sad and pathetic thing if you go to a strip club to pick up women. Like I said before, they girls who work there have one purpose and that is to make money. They are not interested in dating you. Be serious, most girls wouldn't want their boyfriends going to strip clubs in the first place, what makes you think they'll be any different. Proper behavior in a strip club includes not falling in love with the girls.

Those are the major points, really. Of course, I don't have to stress how important it is that you respect the women at strip clubs just like you would any other woman. In fact, it may be safe to go as far as saying that you should respect them more. Just use your head. Ask yourself, "what would Jesus do?" (not that I'm saying Jesus goes to strip clubs)

My sources for this article: Information from my daughter, an ex-stripper and my own personal experience in strip clubs.