Proposed Bill to Ban Spanking Supported by Many

Summer Minor
California's state legislature is considering passing a law that would ban spanking children, making California the first and only state to outlaw spanking as punishment. The bill was proposed by Assemblywoman Sally Lieber, a Democrat, and will ban parents from spanking any child 4 years of age or younger. In effect any parent caught spanking would face a misdemeanor charge punishable by up to a year in jail or a fine up to $1,000. Lieber promises to introduce this bill next week.

Though this is seen as a groundbreaking human rights proposal in the United States, it is another step forward than many other countries have already taken. In 15 European countries it is illegal for a parent or a teacher to hit a child. Sweden (1979), Finland (1983), Norway (1987), Austria (1989), Cyprus (1994), Denmark (1997), Latvia (1998), Croatia (1999), Bulgaria (2000), Germany (2000), Iceland (2003), Romania (2004), Ukraine (2004) and Hungary (2005), and Greece (2007) all have passed laws that protect children from physical punishment by spanking. Several human rights groups, such as End Punishment of Children (EPOCH) and Parents and Teachers Against Violence in Education (PTAVE), have worked hard to raise awareness to the negative effects that spanking can have on a child.

The ban on spanking bill is expected to meet with opposition from many Republicans. Issues such as how such a bill can be enforced and fears that legislation of that nature could be over-regulating the family lives of those in California are a few of the complaints that have already been voiced. But opposition to the bill could change over time. In 1978 When Sweden passed legislation to stop spanking 70% of population polled were against it. However just twenty years later a new poll in 1997 showed that only 10% were still against a ban on spanking, showing that the cultural feeling on spanking had greatly changed.

Many feel that the ban on spanking in California would finally afford children the same rights as adults. In fact corporal punishment for adults has been illegal for several years. Flogging, used in the Navy as punishment for drunken or disorderly conduct was abolished in 1853. Even in prisons in the U.S. flogging of a prisoner was made illegal in 1957. At one time, in fact, a husband could use physical punishment on his wife when upset without worry of legal repercussions as it was considered a "reasonable chastisement of wives". While laws have been passed to protect adults from such forms of punishment children are still vulnerable to discipline and punishment in the form of spanking. California law currently permits spanking by parents unless the degree of force is excessive or not appropriate for the child's age, though what is excessive or not appropriate is left to opinion and can vary greatly.

Those in favor of this bill becoming law state that spanking is not an effective or appropriate way to discipline and teach children. Elizabeth Thompson Gershoff, PhD, of the National Center for Children in Poverty at Columbia University studied children and the effect that corporal spanking had. In her study the only positive effect that could be associated with spanking was immediate compliance on the part of the child, beyond that she found ten negative associations such as aggression and anti-social behavior. Opponents to spanking say that physical punishment does not teach a child right from wrong but instead only enforces a belief that "might makes right" and that hitting is an effective way to express feeling and solve problems. Many say that there are more effective ways to handle negative behavior in children that will also help them to learn how to resolve conflict later in life. Experts such as Jan Hunt, M.Sc. feels that "In many cases of so-called "bad behavior", the child is simply responding in the only way he can, given his age and experience, to neglect of basic needs. Among these needs are: proper sleep and nutrition, treatment of hidden allergy, fresh air, exercise, and sufficient freedom to explore the world around him." She goes on to say that "It is surely wrong and unfair to punish a child for responding in a natural way to having important needs neglected."

Many in favor of spanking often cite "Spare the rod, spoil the child" as divine authority to use physical punishment on children. This phrase comes from several passages in the Bible, such as "He who spareth the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes" (Proverbs 13:24) and "The rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to itself disgraces his mother." (Prov. 29:15). Dr. William Sears, however, disputes this interpretation. Dr. Sears says "While the rod could be used for hitting, it was more frequently used for guiding wandering sheep. Shepherds didn't use the rod to beat their sheep - and children are certainly more valuable than sheep" Looking at other instances of a rod being mentioned, such as "Your rod and your staff, they comfort me." (Psalm 23:4)
we can see that clearly the rod was not meant to be a source of pain as spanking often is, but a source of comfort.

Others in support of spanking as a form of discipline for children often use the "I was spanked and I turned out just fine" line of reasoning. This reasoning is often used to support many things that research shows to be harmful in children, from smoking during pregnancy to eating fast food. However many professionals believe that the violence, drug use, and hate that we see so offend on the news is the adult manifestation of physical punishment in a child. Psychoanalyst and author Alice Miller says "The claim that mild punishment, such as smacks or slaps, have no detrimental effects is still widespread because we got this message from our parents, who got it from theirs. It is this conviction which helps the child to minimize or numb their suffering so that each generation is subjected to the seemingly harmless effects of physical correction. 'What hasn't harmed me cannot harm my child', we tell ourselves. Such a conclusion is wrong because people have never challenged their assumptions."

Many respected organizations such as the European Committee of Social Rights, The Human Rights Committee, Committee on Economic, Social and Cultural Rights, and the Committee Against Torture have all condemned corporal punishment for children. A national coalition of organizations facilitated by the Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario in Canada released a Joint Statement on Physical Punishment of Children and Youth in 2004 which stated "The evidence is clear and compelling - physical punishment of children and youth plays no useful role in their upbringing and poses only risks to their development. The conclusion is equally compelling - parents should be strongly encouraged to develop alternative and positive approaches to discipline." In the United States the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) has held a stance against corporal punishment such as spanking since 1996, saying spanking is "a less effective strategy than time-out or removal of privileges".

If the bill to ban spanking in California passes it will be in good company among the many other laws in effect around the world that serve to end corporal punishment for children. With encouragement from many respected organizations who endorse alternative approaches to discipline and a growing number of people who are choosing not to spank their children California may become the first of many states who enact anti-spanking laws. In time the United States may even add its name to the list of countries in which spanking children is illegal.

Published by Summer Minor

Summer Minor is a mother of 3 who practices Attachment Parenting and believes that with gentle guidance children can grow to be who they were meant to be. She blogs about parenting at http://mama2mamatips.com  View profile

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  • t. a. mapenza4/29/2011

    spank with love

  • unrealistic3/26/2009

    I beleive that spanking your child fits in some situations and some not. Just like the one man said he uses push ups to punish his child and that may work for him, but what if the child refuses to do them? some children are different and need different treatment. Spanking for some kids might work for them and not others. But i know when i have children i will not let my child scream bloody murder in the middle of a walmart or such for not getting what he wants. Most the time just giving your kid a firm pat on the butt will make them stop what they are doing wrong. If spanking is working for your family i say do it(within boundries),if it is not then move on to some other form of discipline. Bust most of all dont turn your child into a mommas boy or a mommas girl.

  • Laughing at California3/24/2008

    Only in California....home of more wacko nuts than anywhere else. Glad this didn't pass.

  • A Real Parent!!!11/30/2007

    My son and I went into a Walmart. He had a fit because I would not buy him a toy he wanted (can't afford due to the EX!!) My son would not stop having a fit soooooo instead of spanking him I made him do pushups, Now as a 4 year old I am proud of my son because he stops the fit does the pushups and I get yelled at by a passerby, None the less the passerby just about ended up doing pushups also because I was about to start yelling back at her. I can see that she lets her children get away with things and run her life. I cant wait till they drop out of school and live with her till they are 40. BTW my son is 6.5 now and can do 70 pushups and flutter kicks for almost 10 min. He can run 1.5 miles in 14 minuets....... Beat that ass. AND best of all he is a honor student in his school. I tell him to push he stops what he is doing and he pushes. I can't get into trouble I never touched him. I am his Daddy I am his Father I am his role model.

  • pissed off parent11/30/2007

    WOW beat their butts. As a parent I am held liable for what my child does and NOW I can get put away for touching my child. NOW hear this children of the world RAISE hell and you will get away with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • GROW UP!11/28/2007

    Spare the rod, spoil the child! That's what's wrong with this country and why the crime rates are at an all-time high and respect is nill. To find that we have to pay for new jails because we can't hold the number of criminals is ludicrous. That's what happens when boundaries are broken and/or excused.

    Let me just say, they take away our rights as a human being in America the Free, you may as well take away our freedom! They keep taking our freedom away little by little and you left-winged liberals are so blind not to see it! For cryin' out loud, our great Country was based upon the Word of God and idiots like these want to take it out only to place communism into our Country's plan. Go ahead, keep taking our rights away and you'll find that we're no longer that free Country and you'll find a Country much like the communist ones! If you want that, go live in one of those countries and make yourself proud! We don't need you here!

    Spanking is a priviledge to the one who rec

  • Waldo11/28/2007

    this is why the u.s. is so messed up. there is no consequence for actions. kids are tought the entitleistic approach anymore and think that they should get something for nothing. SPANK THE LITTLE BRATS WHEN THE ACT UP!

  • mad11/27/2007

    I don't get spanked. I'm a goodboy

  • dude11/27/2007

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