Pushing the Woman onto the Bed: A Sexual Technique She May Love

Men (or dominant women) might want to know how or if women love to be pushed down on the bed. If you're with a woman who seriously doesn't want to be more intimate with you, the last thing I'd recommend is pushing her on the bed, of course. That would get you slapped, or more. This isn't for people who tend to think women always mean "yes" when they say "no". But if you're with a woman who is giving unmistakable signs of interest, maybe hesitant, maybe making up her mind, maybe stalling for time, maybe shy, but definitely showing some openness, and you're by the bed, give her a little gentle push down onto, there, fellows. See what happens.

Watch carefully, and be sensitive to body language. If she gives some resistance, but seems to have heated up in a good way, you may want to show her a little more of your male side, your vision that this can be something vibrant and with a little power play, you may be able to appeal to her active nature. She may rise back up, and you may give her a little push back down, and by that time she may be rising back up towards you in order to kiss you, to get more contact. If your perceptions aren't sharp, don't attempt this, but if you're good at reading body language, try another push, and let your forcefulness win her over, your male aggressiveness, with a smile, with assurance, but only if you have already established with her that you care about her wellbeing, and are a gentle, trustworthy person. She may be happy to find that you can be a "bad boy," go beyond polite conversation and into physical play.

Being pushed on the bed from a standing position, a kneeling position, or sitting, lying down but starting to rise up, all have potential to turn a woman on tremendously, a kind of cavewoman mentality that lets her know that you have more to you than she suspected perhaps, that you have the capacity to let out your male intensity, and she may be caught up in the physical, animal mood you're bringing into play. If she likes it, keep pushing, and maybe hold her wrists down, maybe hold her legs down with your ankles, maybe push her down with your body as she struggles to kiss you, but keep your face just a little bit above so she's teased. As you push her down, keep yourself as the prize that she can't quite get to, but she'll want you more. You can hover over her, naked, as you hold her down, almost kiss her, kneel over her and as she rises up, push her down again, so she'll want to keep trying, and you keep her wanting you until you're ready to show her what's what.

She may not be suddenly turned on by gentle kisses and soft music and candles and sweet talk, if she's more in the mood for athletic, passionate, oceanic expressions of her sexual nature with someone who can match that strength. Many men feel they have to treat women like flowers, but women may be hungering for something where they can feel as if they are wrestling a hurricane, letting out their desire whole heartedly. Pushing her down on the bed can immediately trigger that desire, and if she's pushing back in a passionate wrestling spirit, go with it. As you bring out your testosterone and your forceful nature, that can bring up hers as well, and she'll feel like flexing her muscles against yours.

She may also be so overcome by wanting to lie back and open up as her body is doing its job of opening up the vaginal canal, she may not be able to keep up the athletic pushing and pulling and may go into submission mode. She may become passive to some degree, going into a swoon, but we would hope, moving against you, thrusting, showing her enthusiasm verbally, clutching you, pulling you to her, grabbing you with her feet around you. But when you show that kind of male aggressiveness, she may be rendered incapable of even opening her eyes to look at you, as she may be so enjoying herself to find a man with that degree of magnetic, electric power, self assurance, and the joy of giving a woman the pleasure she hungers for.