Qualities that Make a Woman Irresistible to a Man: Part 2

Making love to a man is the most important need that I think he has and will ever have. Some may feel differently, but I have seen it in many books and have casually heard it from male authors and other men.

It's a lot deeper than just having sex. A man desires to make love. He wants you to have just as much pleasure in it as he does. A man who loves you wants you to be fulfilled in love making and he will do what he can to achieve that. A lot of times a man cheats not because he doesn't love you. It is because this need isn't being met. Even the Word of God says that a man should not be without a wife.

1. Sex is very important in marriage. Ladies, sex should never be used as a weapon to "get even." That would be the most degrading and disrespectful thing that you can do towards your husband. Now if there is a need to make up, apologize and be compassionate after a disagreement and before you would have sex, then that is great. Never ever shut him off and deny him sex, because you are mad at him. We will get into this later, but sex and affection are different things.

Affection is a woman's need. Most of the time a man will show affection, but he must remember that it shouldn't always mean sex. There are ways that you can disrespect your wife as well. A nice hug and a kiss in public should not lead to fondling or any other foreplay. Sex is sacred and should be experimented so that the both of you can learn eachother's body and what is best for each one. This should be done starting on the honeymoon and never end!

Ever thought of going with your sweetheart to play a round of golf or fishing? Well guess what? I have made another discovery. Men need to have their lady as a recreational buddy. She needs to enjoy the many things that he does. This is one of the top needs of a man. Take interest in sports that he loves. No one is asking you to run out there and play football with him or anything. However, he needs you to watch the game with him. No, don't like all of the same teams either. It's cute when your favorite team plays his favorite team. A little fun competition never hurts, ha!

2. Be his friend. Even while dating a man really loves you when he wants you with him for the Super Bowl or World Series. This is a way that you honor him. Take interest in things that he loves to do. That could be anything from walking, riding bikes, collecting items or exercising. This is a greatest need that will be fulfilled by someone; it needs to be you. Express your interests early in your dating and always stay interested in one another's extra curriculum.

Be his help meet. Yep it's in the Bible. A woman comes from a man. She is to be by his side and be his help meet. He needs your support in all aspects of his busy life. If he needs you to be a secretary, then you need to fulfill that need. Men need to come home to a sanctuary. What I mean by this is there needs to be peace for him there because the first part of his day was stressful. A man's home should be filled with love, peace and harmony.

Ha, what a picture in today's society. You're kidding right! First of all, most women work full time jobs too. It is very hard to imagine a hunky dory sweet little home with the wife in the kitchen cooking a full course meal, the babies playing happily and quietly in the play room, dinner table set, nice harmonious music playing and the bath water running when he walks through the door. However, there are ways that you can make his home his sanctuary!

3. Be the loving wife that you are and try your hardest. Yes, the chores will need to be shared, especially if you both work. A daddy NEEDS to spend time with his kids anyway, so playing with the kids while that beautiful wife of yours finishes up dinner is perfect. Men you MUST bond with your kids. It's not a job, it's a good daddy's responsibility. Ladies, the revolutionary crockpot is awesome! Put that bad boy to use! Another tip is to make sure his bed is always made up before he gets home. Meet him at the door with a kiss and a promise of what's to come later. That alone will take his long hectic day and turn it into a bright sunshiny, sweet day!

Let's run back over this two part series of a man's needs and qualities of a woman that he finds irresistible:

1. Plenty of GOOD sex - don't just lay there, ladies. Yep, going to be blunt and straight up. You all know me. Be passionate and get involved; take control even. Communicate what would fulfill your sexual desires and according to the Bible anything that you two agree upon, is undefiled when you are married. Have at it!

2. Be his friend and fun buddy. Take genuine interest in what he loves to do. Consider it a good thing when he wants you by his side during those games or when he is involved in something he loves to do. Love what he loves and women love that as well.

3. Become a good help meet and a tidy wife. He wants to come home to a nice house full of peace and good food, followed by love, sex and happiness. He may need you to do other things for him as well. Take up the slack if he is a business man. A business always runs when you're the boss and there may be times that he needs you to make phone calls, follow up on emails or make business runs.

4. Be gentle on his eyes. You may have the perfect body and maintain that just for him all throughout your marriage. If that is the case, go deeper. Find out what colors he loves on you, your hair, types of clothes. Yes ladies, the clothes you wear to bed count. Everyone else may not see them but he does! He is the MOST IMPORTANT person. A trip to Victoria's Secret was never bad. Go together and then surprise him at the door with nothing but that and a trench coat, ha! Maintain your body, by exercising and making it a way of life! Become exercising partners!

5. Love his every move. He wants you to tell him how wonderful he is. This sounds like one of the five love languages; Words of Affirmation. Encourage new goals. Do not ever come against something that he has planned. I mean it is ok to disagree. However hear him out completely and ALWAYS have a solution or a good reason to disagree. Then reassure him that you will back up a decision or plan. He needs you to trust his authority in the marriage. This goes hand in hand with admiration, I believe. Letting him know that he is appreciated is something he needs, especially so that he can continue to reach more goals. See how that works! He just needs your encouragement and support.